OH being a complete arse since finding out having a C section. I was in pain yest and so uncomfortable. yet he still expects me to take him to work each day just cos I'm not working. Aswel as do all the housework. it's so hard when it's like clearing up after a child. he left all hairs around the sink after shaving last night never washes the bath out. just leaves clothes on the floor. Constantly slags my mum and sister off. What would any of you do? We are having her on the 27th and I'm on the verge of moving out :(
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Hope your ok. he sounds like he needs a reality check and his head taking out of his arse. Sorry you have to put up with such a Dickhead. Have you tried talking to him about the way he is being? If so and he still hasn't changed, give him the boot!! Or at least until he changes his act.
oh hunny please love yourself and your baby more than this so called man!! your happiness is important@zozo87
@kerrykay, @littleelf85 he's already whinging cos iv told him I won't be able to do much after my c section and he said I'm just guna play on it. and expect him to do everything. I'm so scared about it all as it is. I technically will be homeless if I leave him. There's not room at my mums house and my niece (who's older then me) has offered me her dinning room. but she already has 4 kids. one of which is 4 months old and I don't want to lumber all my problems onto her. even tho she has been an amazing support to me. I just feel so trapped :( sorry for the rant xx
oh wow you treat him like a king so you mustn't be made to feel like his maid!!!! have you spoken to him about it? i am upset just thinking about if I was in that position right now!! woman to woman its about time you do you!!!! focus on the c-section and the safe delivery of your baby.@zozo87,
@kerrykay, he makes out I do nothing for him yet I always take him to work and pick him up to save arguments. I'll always do his dinner and make sure he has clean clothes. he's always got a bath run for when he gets in from work and the house clean. yet I take him for granted. I don't no what more I can do :( xx
who feels it knows it!! you have to know what you want dear. a relationship should be equal but i have noticed that some women put more effort into a relationship than the male. it must not be that way. you both have to make an effort for the relationship to be balanced. the ultimate decision is yours. now is not the time to stress yourself. good luck ☺
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Really need to vent rn... Im not the type of person that likes putting my personal business out but I really need somebody to talk to....
So here it goes 😒. Yesterday I bought my first car ever for a $1000 it needs minor work ( no biggie), but it drives amazing. And my s/o is going off on me because I bought a car wow he was at work. So he says "I'm rushing". But I'm at home with two mfn kids all day everyday and when I need something done I have to wait til his off day just to get things done...
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
So I just found out I'm pregnant with my second baby on Thursday and I told my mom on Friday after my fiance told his mom and dad and today I was talking with my mom and if baby is a boy I'm not going to have a baby shower but if it's a girl it's going to be a small baby shower and my mom told me that I can't have another baby shower that it's now how it works. So do I have a shower or not? Any advice?
I'd be telling him to man the f**k up & start cleaning up after himself. He's not a child & your not his mother. Yes I clean the house & do the washing & ironing because I'm on maternity leave. But no I will not pick up my husbands dirty clothes or clean the bath or shower after him. If he leaves it dirty I let him know he's cleaning it before I get in. If he refuses to help out I'd start leaving his clothes on the floor, they wouldn't get cleaned or ironed & he'd soon realise I'm not being treated like a maid.