OH being a complete arse since finding out having a C section. I was in pain yest and so uncomfortable. yet he still expects me to take him to work each day just cos I'm not working. Aswel as do all the housework. it's so hard when it's like clearing up after a child. he left all hairs around the sink after shaving last night never washes the bath out. just leaves clothes on the floor. Constantly slags my mum and sister off. What would any of you do? We are having her on the 27th and I'm on the verge of moving out :(
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Hope your ok. he sounds like he needs a reality check and his head taking out of his arse. Sorry you have to put up with such a Dickhead. Have you tried talking to him about the way he is being? If so and he still hasn't changed, give him the boot!! Or at least until he changes his act.
oh hunny please love yourself and your baby more than this so called man!! your happiness is important@zozo87
@kerrykay, @littleelf85 he's already whinging cos iv told him I won't be able to do much after my c section and he said I'm just guna play on it. and expect him to do everything. I'm so scared about it all as it is. I technically will be homeless if I leave him. There's not room at my mums house and my niece (who's older then me) has offered me her dinning room. but she already has 4 kids. one of which is 4 months old and I don't want to lumber all my problems onto her. even tho she has been an amazing support to me. I just feel so trapped :( sorry for the rant xx
oh wow you treat him like a king so you mustn't be made to feel like his maid!!!! have you spoken to him about it? i am upset just thinking about if I was in that position right now!! woman to woman its about time you do you!!!! focus on the c-section and the safe delivery of your baby.@zozo87,
@kerrykay, he makes out I do nothing for him yet I always take him to work and pick him up to save arguments. I'll always do his dinner and make sure he has clean clothes. he's always got a bath run for when he gets in from work and the house clean. yet I take him for granted. I don't no what more I can do :( xx
who feels it knows it!! you have to know what you want dear. a relationship should be equal but i have noticed that some women put more effort into a relationship than the male. it must not be that way. you both have to make an effort for the relationship to be balanced. the ultimate decision is yours. now is not the time to stress yourself. good luck ☺
I'd be telling him to man the f**k up & start cleaning up after himself. He's not a child & your not his mother. Yes I clean the house & do the washing & ironing because I'm on maternity leave. But no I will not pick up my husbands dirty clothes or clean the bath or shower after him. If he leaves it dirty I let him know he's cleaning it before I get in. If he refuses to help out I'd start leaving his clothes on the floor, they wouldn't get cleaned or ironed & he'd soon realise I'm not being treated like a maid.