Am I over reacting. Iv a planned c section for the 27th of this month I will be 39+1. OH has said the football lads all…

The date he wants to go out I will be 38+3

I'd be furious. I agreed with my OH he doesn't go out drinking after 34 weeks, if he wants to go and not drink then that's fine, but what if something happened. Also if I can do 40 weeks not drinking then plus the next 6 months or a year while I breast feed he can manage 6 weeks off the booze. His friends aren't going anywhere xx

Aw hell no. I "encouraged" my OH to stop drinking a good month or two before I was due just incase he came early. Even tho ur getting a section you could easily go into early labor! I wouldn't be pleased at all! Defos not over reacting xx

honestly it should be ok, most babies come after their expected due date, but if you really feel uncomfortable with him going out let him know and he should understand x

He went out straight from work on Friday just gone. got so drunk when he got home at 10 wouldn't stop being sick and I couldn't get him up off the bathroom floor. he also went out the Friday before and altho didn't get as drunk iv told him so many times. if she comes early I won't even tell him as will refuse to have a drunk in the room with me @kmcf2302 @emmaelaine

@littleelf85, I was going too. but had to be up for work at 5 am and new I wouldn't have slept if I'd left him there xx

@zozo87, oh that's a different story if hes drinking inconsideratley it would be a big No No! you don't need that before your due to have your little one! if he could go out and socially drink with out falling in his own vomit id say yeah. But no to the drunken mess!

this is really funny actually because my husband is due to go out the same night (22nd) to a beer festival! granted I'll only be 33+2 but I'm expecting twins. 1 of the twins hasnt grown from my last scan so im being very closely monitored at the minute. but I'm in 2 parts about how I feel because I understand he shouldn't really be drinking that close to the end but I know I'd feel really really guilty if he didn't go and nothing happened my end lol! xx

Sounds like an immature teenager. Needs to grow up and realise he has responsibilities now. He can't be going out and getting lashed being sick everywhere. It's not your responsibility to mother his hangovers either. I hope for your sake he grows up and starts supporting you.

@raych, it's so hard. I agree don't want him to stay in if nothing happens. All I said to him it's a risk he can either go out and miss the potential birth of his daughter. I said I just don't see why he can't wait a few more weeks until she's here xx

@zozo87, I know exactly what you mean, you can't say or do right for wrong lol! my husband has promised he won't go mad with drinking and even asked his mum to be on close stand by incase. I still haven't said yes to him going lol xx

personally wouldnt bother me my sister got married wen i was 3 days overdue i let my husband stay in evening with my family and went home with our 2 year old.

@raych, we would soon be in the wrong if they missed out x

@jod1303, bit different if staying out with family and at a wedding but this is a lads night out

my husband going on a stag doo 3 hours away 2 weeks before my due date for 2 nights 😠x

my hubby is invited to a work night out the night before my due date hes told them no but I've told him to get himself out x

@rose123610, ouch hun that is shit. why have blokes got it so easy.? mines like I don't mind looking after her when she's here so you can go out I was like Nahhh I'm not guna wanna leave her xx

@mummyto1soon2be2, you sound like you have a gooden there hun. it's our 1st so just want him there. I'm so scared about this section as it is xx