Okay Ladies what are your thoughts on this I saw this on fb so I decided to post it here
@surprise4 very true it depends on the situation and as you said if its a stable marriage but I do think both have to come to an agreement...... @vicky810 😂😂😂 @mrs.n2014 being a SAHM isn't for everyone some women enjoy it and some do not but on the up side of being a SAHM you get the chance to spend more time with your kids and focus on you as well as having some you time which is needed sometimes @ginnalynn I know the feeling I was dealing with morning sickness really bad at the beginning of this pregnancy and I still am on occasions
It is an amazing post if only a lot more men thought and felt this way... If the context is a stable marriage that is. I couldn't see a single woman giving up her income cause her baby daddy doesn't feel like she should, its admirable but even if its a long term relationship he would need to have just as much at stake if a woman gave up her job.
@beebaby @ssdj4 I totally agree with those responses and like you said @beebaby to each his own
@mdomke22 @zehmbabies I had to stop working halfway through my last pregnancy and I hated the fact of not doing anything I felt like being a stay at home wife and mom was literally sucking the life out of me so by choice I chose to go back to work after giving birth and I currently work now and I'm praying that I have no issues with this pregnancy because I dread not working
I agree on some aspects. I think a woman's job is solely to raise the kid but with the dad's help of course. I also believe that in this day and age to really get anywhere in life, you need two incomes. I worked until I had my son and I have health issues. I went to work 2 weeks after having him mainly to get my mind off of him being in the hospital. I'm not working this pregnancy and it's driving me insane.
we made the choice together for me to continue working. Although going back 2 weeks after giving birth sucked I had reduced hrs while I still recovered. reality is both my husband and I have to work to provide for our one child soon to be 2 chikdren in june
I think it's good to work. it helps you stay active and a little fit during your pregnancy at least. also I like making my own money... but then again I've never been able to just depend on my SO so I really don't know what that would feel like. worked through both my pregnancies so far. lol I wouldn't mind trying it out for a while if I had the chance!
I definitely agree @amaperalta03 it should be a choice that both should make and as far as me I've always worked so it's just something that's in me where I want my own money don't get me wrong my husband is a wonderful provider but 2 incomes are better than 1
Some ladies need to work. A lot of times one income isn't enough. And also some woman like making their own money. I defiantly feel like that's something both in the relationship should talk about before doing it. And if you can afford it and she wants to stay home I say go for it.
If I had a man that would make sure I'm ok financially I would stop at 35 weeks it gets hard after 30 weeks depending on the stress level of your job and the type of work you do.