Ok.. so this has been a big issue for a while and i just now am able to put it on here..
My husband thought i cheated on him so the entire time i was pregnant he thought my son was someone elses.. I had him and he still didnt believe me so the entire time i was in the hospital i could barely look at my son (i knew he was his, but it still made me upset) he got a dna test on my son when he was in the hospital we had to wait for 2 weeks.. i didnt get attached to my son and now i love my son more than anything but i dont feel as close to my daughter now that i am close to him.. i feel terrible and depressed.. help 😔😔😔
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yes possibly you could I would get in touch with my doctor. I agree with @housfullofgrls ,don't allow this situation beat yourself up Good luck momma
im detached to my 1 year old.. not my son.. @housfullofgrls
Yes it could, talk to your doctor again. And don't beat yourself up, sometimes bonding takes a while. Don't let what happened keep you down. It's over now
I am on an antidepressant. and he is 3 months old.. would it carry out this long?.. @housfullofgrls @smilingwithmyawesome4kids
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