hey everyone this is just somewhere I can vent not to be judged but needs some advice and enlightment
hey everyone this is just somewhere I can vent not to be judged but needs some advice and enlightment
so my whole pregnancy has been rough myle and the father of my child agrued a lot he verbally abused me and it hurt... so I guess it starts with verbal then leads to physical so they other day he puts his hands on me .. my face is wounded and I'm just in shocked and hurt because I'm pregnant with your child he accused me of lying and cheating I called the cops he's claiming he's trying to get custody my life us not perfect but I do have small things to get in order I'm 21 yes old by the way
our relationship was on and off and I had old friends that I did have sexual relationships with and some didn't and he said that's cheating like am I wrong ?? I need help
Autumn·
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Autumn·
typical it's always someone else's fault that they acted poorly... period point blank until he can own his actions and say I acted badly it doesn't change there will always be an excuse... if you do not feel the sexual endeavors were wrong then they weren't wrong period... own your part whether positive or negative and that's all your responsible for... above all respect love and honor yourself and your child... don't worry about his behavior he made choices and consequences are natural
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@sparklymama, as of two days ago I have letter him.. I called the cops on him put out a report but he raned front he scene .. so he's still running around hiding ... he's making everything seem like its my fault that's why it happened..
Autumn·
it's not a good situation all the way around... personally it wouldn't be a right or wrong issue because honestly that's a non issue being right or wrong doesn't change the biggest issue here disrespect, abuse, and an unhealthy relationship... honestly you need to be evaluating your choice about this relationship stay or go and how to remove the toxicity of this relationship if you choose to stay
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@lovingmatheo, yes that would help
Edna🌻·
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No one should ever put a hand on you ever no matter what the situation is. Do you want to message me so you can vent a little more
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@sparklymama, both
Autumn·
are you wanting advice on the domestic violence or whether the sex part was cheating to prove a point to your partner?