hey everyone this is just somewhere I can vent not to be judged but needs some advice and enlightment
so my whole pregnancy has been rough myle and the father of my child agrued a lot he verbally abused me and it hurt... so I guess it starts with verbal then leads to physical so they other day he puts his hands on me .. my face is wounded and I'm just in shocked and hurt because I'm pregnant with your child he accused me of lying and cheating I called the cops he's claiming he's trying to get custody my life us not perfect but I do have small things to get in order I'm 21 yes old by the way
our relationship was on and off and I had old friends that I did have sexual relationships with and some didn't and he said that's cheating like am I wrong ?? I need help
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typical it's always someone else's fault that they acted poorly... period point blank until he can own his actions and say I acted badly it doesn't change there will always be an excuse... if you do not feel the sexual endeavors were wrong then they weren't wrong period... own your part whether positive or negative and that's all your responsible for... above all respect love and honor yourself and your child... don't worry about his behavior he made choices and consequences are natural
@sparklymama, as of two days ago I have letter him.. I called the cops on him put out a report but he raned front he scene .. so he's still running around hiding ... he's making everything seem like its my fault that's why it happened..
it's not a good situation all the way around... personally it wouldn't be a right or wrong issue because honestly that's a non issue being right or wrong doesn't change the biggest issue here disrespect, abuse, and an unhealthy relationship... honestly you need to be evaluating your choice about this relationship stay or go and how to remove the toxicity of this relationship if you choose to stay
No one should ever put a hand on you ever no matter what the situation is. Do you want to message me so you can vent a little more
are you wanting advice on the domestic violence or whether the sex part was cheating to prove a point to your partner?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
I need some help/knowledge on child support and taxes?! Her father pays child support monthly.. My daughter lives with me, I haven't filed my taxes yet. I'm planning on doing it this weekend.
My ex just texted me and said - "Hey my dad is doing my taxes for me and he needs ur social security number n your full name, cause I need to claim back some of the taxes from the child support. And he said u can still claim Mia it won't affect it he already asked the tax people. So if u can send it over ...
Is it wrong of me to make a fake fb and see if my ole man is cheating? Stuff happened and he hasn't been staying here... and he is talking to the girl (me.) But he doesn't know it's me.... he is lying saying I cheated on him, and that my name is jule, and clearly it's lacy. And he only got with me bc I was a good mom.... but just yesterday he came and stayed with me, we had sex all night... he is telling me one thing, and her (me) another... lol I'm thinking on just walking away... and yes I'm 2...