So i had my group b strep done today and it wasnt bad at all thankfully. But the dr tried checking my cervix and i just couldnt (because of my vaginsmus) 😐 So he told me he wont be checking me till im actually having contractions and in labor. Im glad he was understanding about it, cuz most drs/nurses arent. Baby boy is looking good 🤗 4 more weeks!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
tmi i need ur opinions pik in comments! the dr said i was bleeding yesterday after she check for dialation im only 36weeks 4cm. Is this a sign for me to go to the hospital?
did every ones SO go to EVERY dr appointment with them?? im at my appointment and its not an ultrasound or anything so i told my boyfriend he can stay home and sleep... im here and everyone has their guy with them.. im feeling lonely now:/
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Contractions are 9 minutes apart and painful... On way to hospital my dr already called said to go straight to registration, so they can check me in then they will take me to maternity... Getting anxious..
Taylor·
Мама сына-младенца
trust me, I was not brave lol I was 3cm when I first got to the hospital and they told me they wouldn't give me the epidural until I was a five. an hour later I was a ten and when they told me I cried because I couldn't get the epidural. Lol but it actually made pushing a lot easier because my body knew what to do
marwa·
В ожидании первенца
omg youre so brave! even though i havent tried i could never do it without one lol but yes ill definitely keep you updated 🤗@tlw1596
Taylor·
Мама сына-младенца
Lol I think you'll be able to. at least I hope you will! You won't feel anything with your epidural, I went all natural because I didn't have time for an epidural. I was only in the hospital an hour before I delivered. keep me updated!! (:
marwa·
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no problem! and girllll ive been praying i can actually have a vaginal birth just cuz im hoping itll get alot better lol @tlw1596
Taylor·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you for explaining it to me! I've never heard of it before! I'm really curious to know if it changes for you after you have the baby! sex was always super painful for me before my baby, but afterwards it was so different
Nicole·
Ok thank u . There is so much to read and learn, it is very overwhelming and exciting at the same time.
marwa·
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@nmkel, its when your vagina contracts and closes involuntarily when coming into contact with anything. so any pelvic exams and sometimes even sex is very painful
marwa·
В ожидании первенца
@tlw1596, its a little bit of both, mental and physical. My vagina contracts and closes involuntarily when coming into contact with anything. thats the physical part. sex just got easier because im comfortable with the man im having it with i guess. thats the mental part.
Nicole·
What is vaginsmus ?
marwa·
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@vella89, since i started having sex which was when i got married 3 years ago
Taylor·
Мама сына-младенца
is it more of a mental thing that you have to get past? Is that like why sex got easier?
Norvella·
Мама четверых детей
How long have you had it??
marwa·
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@vella89, it used to at first. it was horrible! but it doesnt anymore i actually can enjoy it lol. But anything else going in hurts like hell and makes me tense up so bad
Norvella·
Мама четверых детей
Does it hurt when you have sex with Vaginsmus?
marwa·
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thank you! @halliekay
Hallie·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
oh ohkay. id heard of the condition before but never even thought about a woman going into labor. good luck with everything!
marwa·
В ожидании первенца
according to my dr it wont be an issue since ill be getting the epidural as soon as my contractions come through and i wont be able to feel a thing. But i guess ill find out lol @halliekay
Hallie·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
im curious, does that cause any issues with having a vaginal birth?