keep blacking out every so often and feeling sick and dizzy😢 (NOT PREGNANT) im also feeling so exhausted i havent slept properly in nearly 2 weeks as bubba isnt well and everytime i try to sleep when he does he wakes up, im so exhausted that i can barely stand up straight this morning and i have the worst migrane ever my eyes are going all funny and no body will have finlay for me just to have a few hours proper sleep, OH is here but wont offer and i dont like to ask him because he keeps saying that hes always up with finlay too (he only goes and makes the bottles then goes straight back to sleep)😢 he doesnt realise im up all day and all night considering finlay is poorly plus feeding nappy changing and bathing, it sucks when you have no family to help you out😢😢
&Before; someone jumps down my throat im not moaning about looking after him as i love being a mummy and all its ups and downs but i just need a few hours sleep as i actually cant function properly😢
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So glad to hear your MIL is helping. In these situations you need someone, anyone, OH, Family or good friend to take baby for just a few hours so you can sleep. Reality is that as a mum you need to take care of yourself to be able to take care of your LO. I know we often come secondary but when you're this exhausted that you're blacking out you have to be firm with the OH and drop baby on him and walk yourself over to bed and lock the door and nap. I have the same personality, I don't like asking for his help and wish he would offer but men are stupid and most of them don't have that in them so you have to force it when you've reached your limit. Good luck x
I live off energy drinks with a newborn specially night feeds
@danielleallen110, try energy tablets and energy drinks I lived of them for the first two months after my daughter was born my partner goes to work 6-5 everyday and iv never left my daughters side its hard sometimes but its what we signed up for xx
i will do thanks hun, i was stood up making tea just now and nearly collapsed so OH has sent me to go and have a few hours sleep , im gunna ring the doctors this afternoon when i get up, my MIL is having finlay for me tomorrow night so i can have a good nights sleep, i know i wish it was a 50/50 thing and he offered aometimes i wish i didnt have to ask half the time i wish he would just say 'no you sit down ill do that' or just go do it without telling me😤😤 hows your little princess hun? xxx
Awe hun! You have every right to say how you feel! of course being a parent isnt a walk in the park...we have ups and downs :) Can you talk to your OH about doing a few things? As you are exhausted?! Or Maybe leave Bubs with him for the day so he knows what it is like...that may open his eyes to things! Really hate when parenting isnt a 50/50 thing...when it took two to make a baby....I had the same issue with my partner...but he is getting better. But sometimes I feel like i dont get through to him...And I just get on with it... Get an appointment with the doctors hun...you sound really exhausted...get your blood pressure checked and iron levels :) It could be low xxx
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so fucked off been up all night now with little man and my OH gets up and says hes tired so going to sleep and im just there, like wtf mate im ill i have literally no energy as i do all the night feeds and looks after him through day (im not moaning i love looking after my little boy) and with that i do all cleaning, cooking, washing and other things that need to be done and i have no energy what so ever i am in absolute agony with my stomach, he doesnt do any night feeds anymore or barely does ...
My bf’s little girl comes in and goes straight to all my baby stuff about to get it all out I have never moved so quick in all my life !...... literally get off 🙊😂
So I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was sleep & im pretty sure we all know what I found....him talking to multiple other females in a relationship type of way. When he wakes up should I act normal? Or confront him about it right then & there.?
thanks hun! he took over lastnigjt and done night feeds xx