Im 20 years old and im pregnant with my second and im planning on getting my tubes tied a month…

they are letting you tie your tubes? My friend is 29 with 4 kids, we have the same doctor and he won't let her. Most don't unless you're 30+ WITH 3 or more kids. You're still young and this is a major decision, make sure you don't regret it.

I can at 21

I just cant do it anymore. I dont want alot of kids anyways. Two is plenty for me.

@ilee, just have to find the right doctor. Legally you can at 18.

@mommyof2_15-17, I understand. I have 2 as well and it's difficult.

@mommyof2_15-17, I completely understand. My ovaries scream "have 100000 babies" but my sanity screams "Why the fuck did you have 2"

@emily18234, Yeah I know, I think it's just where I live, they are strict. For me it's just a major decision so I'm on the IUD.

And im scared to have more cause im already gonna be a single mother of two at the age of 21. Its really scary

@ilee, it is a major decision that isn't a switch if you change your mind. absolutely understand why doctors are so apprehensive about doing it. but there is a major misconception that it's a legal matter.

@mommyof2_15-17 trust me I've been on the single mommy train. I'm here if you ever need an ear

im 23, married, with #2 on the way. i always have complications with my pregnancies but i want this to be my last one. hubby says 2 is enough. we will have 2 boys and although we both wanted a girl I feel like I will be given boys over and over lol. everyone tells me "youll regret it, dont do it, your doctor wont tie your tubes this young." my mil says "its our choice as a married couple."