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This is probably considered some sort of rant/vent. But I figured this is the perfect place to do it and I'm curious if…

This is probably considered some sort of rant/vent. But I figured this is the perfect place to do it and I'm curious if other moms feel the same.

I was at my cousins wedding yesterday and as expected my youngest was on everyone's mind, so my grandmother took him around so everyone could see him before the wedding. I was cool with it, she was gone for awhile so I walked over to were she was to of course hear my cousin just melting over my son. Everything was great then she said something that drives me nuts " you don't make ugly babies, your babies are so so cute!" Now I get what she's saying but then again I don't. I've had that said to me on several different occasions by all different kinds of people, I always smile and say thank you, but in the back of my head I'm thinking how incredibly mean that is, why would you say there is ugly babies! I've NEVER seen an ugly baby! What kind of person looks at a baby and says it's ugly. Like just stop, I get you may think some babies are "cuter" than others, but to use the word ugly is mean as hell. 😳

Rant over. I'm sorry I needed to get that off my chest. Does anyone else have a serious problem with people saying that statement about their child?

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Katrina ZanderМама дочки-младенца

Mostly everyone just says I have the cutest baby ever and I just say thanks but I feel weird saying thanks because I don't feel like that's the right to thing to say. I do think some babies are cuter than others like you said, but I have yet to really see an ugly baby.

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