That's awesome girly ...... I got married after two months being w my hubby now we're married 3.5 years now

@diegosmommy0213, that's good yea we're all close n age we were together like 9years before we got preg We planned it that way bc we wanted to make sure and have everything baby needs and the ability for me to stay home with him so we saved and saved and saved and finally

That's a good age I'm 30 n my husband 39 I was 27 when I had my first one n my husband was 36

@diegosmommy0213, thank u I'm 32 and he is 37 and we just had our first baby on sept 7 he is a only child and she had him late in life

@txyogagirl my in law is older too 73 my husband nine y older then me ... how old r u n ur hubby u don't look older older

@Mel i2890, how old r they?

@meli2890, there will always be problems bc ur living under her roof sorry to say. U really don't have much say in that situation I would for sure move out. @diegosmommy0213 my mil is 71 we are older as well it for sure makes a difference bc age but I do get little bothered by her saying all the time I'm up in age I can't..... But yet she can do all this stuff with her friend go on trips etc and her mom my husband grandma was 80 when he was 10 and still picked him up from school daily and watched him daily I know she won't do that with our son but I would never ask. She was my number one supporter of cloth diapers and that made me super happy she also threw me a nice shower brought all her friends not mine but I got a ton of gifts from people I didn't even really know well. @maddysmom yes u will get there it takes time my husband and I been together 10 years so it has for sure took us time to build trust but I know she loves me and is happy I speak my mind but I'm sweet when I do and most of all I give her affection something she hasn't had much of she don't know how to accept it sometimes but I tell her that's what she needs when she mad and hug her she usually cries and the. Everything better just keep working on it u will get there

yea when her daughter's do something I don't like I tell my husband tell your mom to tell her daughter to stop touching my shit so he will tell his mom then she will say something and we go back and fourth he's in the middle of all this @diegosmommy0213

@Mel i2890, u still butt heads even tho she only speaks Spanish ??

lol same here i speak only English and she speaks Spanish but we use my husband her son to communicate and we butt heads poor boy @diegosmommy0213

I use to but now that we moved in with her ugh now I know how she really is and how she lives

Yes she's up their living her life I don't want to bug so when she tells my husband she wants to visit she comes n we chat very small lol yes her age 73 her oldest is 45 then my husband 39 and his twin sis 38

My parents r older too 63 and 61 and my sis is 44 bro 40 n I'm 30

@diegosmommy0213, 73!?!? Good point! Mines in her late 40's.

I rather stay away n hv her come over when she likes I don't want to bug her she's kinda old 73 I rather her come or say what she wants I don't want to put pressure on her

@diegosmommy0213, lol, try teaching her some English. It will be your way to bond with her.

Lol it sucks tho bc I would love to hangout w her n do lunch anything fun but it's hard

@diegosmommy0213, 😂 girl, you're lucky!

@babymonkey12, that's harsh, I've heard that before too. It's her loss. She's choosing to lose the time with her grandson. She needs to realize you're the boss and be willing to be respectful.

@txyogagirl, I want to be at place where understand each other but not always agree on everything and have some respect. I'll try to be nice and keep my distance. Thanks for the support.

@mommy4916, at least she comes to visit. Mine only picks up and drops off. She's doesn't invite me to any of the events she takes my daughter to. She took my daughter to Disneyland for her first visit and didn't even wait for me to get there she just went right in. It broke my heart.

No lol my mother n law doesn't speak English so we don't speak 😂😂😂

I'm nice to my MIL but she has the never to talk bad about me to my husband and family and comes to me and start talking bad about my family. She called me an idiot and lazy and tells me that I'm keeping her grandson away from her since I'm staying at my parents house for awhile even though we all told her she is more than welcome to come over any time she wants to see him 😒

I feel blessed we get alone great but I always keep my distance always have and she tells everyone how much she likes me I try to be a sweet as I can b she is good but we for sure have different thoughts on things. Try keeping ur distance and see how that works

Mine only comes to Visit to see the girls and her son even tho she Dosent like me but she's never said anything to me and if I were to ask her to watch one of my kids she probably wouldn't say no