speaking to women whom have been I'm relationships, and have been cheated on and you took him back and y'all still together now...How did you get over the pain and hurt? do you trust him to go where he says he's going now?
I was cheated on, I found out because went in his phone.
our relationship is really Rocky right now I know he's trying to make up, but I just feel as thou he will do it again because of who he did it with, he still have to see this chick.... why,? they have a child together, and I don't fully believe the reason why he cheated with her...he did it was her...I feel so unattractive to him now... I'm glad we can't have sex right... I wound probably just cry because I would be thinking did he touch her like this and kiss her how he kiss me. I know its some women that have been in my shoes, how did you deal with it if you stayed with him?
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@trevae, it felt like when my friends and family would tell me to leave him. I would always find some reason to forgive him and take him back.
@texasbama, you right...I knew in my last relationship when it was time to leave
@trevae, yeah it's not easy to just leave. I been cheated on three times in a past relationship. The second time he would stay out all night long with whoever. The third time I moved out the house we had together and moved on. When you tired you tired and that's when you will move on. You don't need no one to tell you to leave you will just do it yourself.
@ajourneywithtwo, thanks... and @riahlala3 I feel what you saying but sometimes its not that easy, not in the means of financial reasons I hold my own, but some people deserve a second Chance and he do..but yeah I am making myself paranoid..
once the trust is gone that's it. don't torture yourself staying in the relationship you will be so paranoid wondering if he's doing it again...just leave
I have LITERALLY been in this same situation. I found out though through a friend. I completely left him and made him get some help. i left in July. since then he has told me that it has been twice that he cheated on me with her.
I got to the point where I needed the honesty to help move forward at all. he's getting help and starting to try to be a better father before a relationship will fall into place. it's hard because I love him and he hurt me. he also know I will never trust him again and he's accepting that. it takes a lot of time and healing on both sides, but don't push a relationship focus on making you a better you that way, if something better walks into your life you're a better you.
@beebaby, thanks