Just going to put it out there 😆 how was it the first time you had 'quality time' with your OH after birth? And how long…

Haha yeh that's understandable I'll just have to keep myself occupied for a while.. might just have to ignore him for a bit haha 😂 xx

Ahah, tbh i didn't realise that it had been that long! With looking after Scarlett and moving house as well the first few months went by so fast! Felt like no time at all 😂 x

Gives me hope that it won't hurt but your very patient person waiting 14 weeks @ginnyw132 😁 lol x

I waited 14 weeks 😂 I had a 2nd degree tear with stitches and was super nervous haha. It didn't hurt at all though x

Im scared because I had stitches and stuff otherwise I'd try now but trying to explain to the OH that things need to go slow to start with is like talking to a brick wall.. saying that I don't know if I'll wana go slow after waiting haha 😂 xx

I waited 12 weeks and I only had a little tear, no stitches though but I was so scared haha xx

3months!! @winterbaby95 😭 haha I'm only 5 weeks pp I will wait a while I think because I still feel a bit of pressure it's just hard work 😁 lol we had similar births didnt we? xx

Wait 8 weeks because I tore really bad, and it hurt for a few seconds and then it was fine, sex is better now x

2 weeks but i had no stitches xx

9 weeks :) hurt a bit for a few weeks :) So I recommend waiting til at least 3 months after birth xx