Just going to put it out there π how was it the first time you had 'quality time' with your OH after birth? And how long after did you wait? Starting to become a little frustrated π


Ahah, tbh i didn't realise that it had been that long! With looking after Scarlett and moving house as well the first few months went by so fast! Felt like no time at all π x
Gives me hope that it won't hurt but your very patient person waiting 14 weeks @ginnyw132 π lol x
I waited 14 weeks π I had a 2nd degree tear with stitches and was super nervous haha. It didn't hurt at all though x
Im scared because I had stitches and stuff otherwise I'd try now but trying to explain to the OH that things need to go slow to start with is like talking to a brick wall.. saying that I don't know if I'll wana go slow after waiting haha π xx
I waited 12 weeks and I only had a little tear, no stitches though but I was so scared haha xx
3months!! @winterbaby95 π haha I'm only 5 weeks pp I will wait a while I think because I still feel a bit of pressure it's just hard work π lol we had similar births didnt we? xx
Wait 8 weeks because I tore really bad, and it hurt for a few seconds and then it was fine, sex is better now x
2 weeks but i had no stitches xx
9 weeks :) hurt a bit for a few weeks :) So I recommend waiting til at least 3 months after birth xx
Haha yeh that's understandable I'll just have to keep myself occupied for a while.. might just have to ignore him for a bit haha π xx