Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
does anyone else SO don't really mess with there newborn? its like my boyfriend wont take the time out to bond with him😞 he says because he never been around babies an don't know what to do even though i tell him what he can do with him.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
I've been supplementing some with formula because my baby boy just demands more than what I'm putting out and he seems happier with the formula..my breast milk doesn't seem to satisfy him enough and it seems like he's always hungry unless I give him formula..should I switch to formula only? I thought breast milk was supposed to be best but in his case I'm not so sure ugh idk what to do I just want him to be happy
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up with something before are baby is here. can anyone help??
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you don't need to formula feed. you can just breast feed much as he wants. just because he eats a lot doesn't mean he isn't getting enough
Elizabeth·
Мама дочки-младенца
My baby ate every 30 min to an hour and everyone kept saying the same thing to me she was getting enough and I was producing enough were at 3 months ebf and now she's going every one hour to almost 2 hours your baby is signaling your body and there latch will get better where they will nurse shorter time periods as they get older we also have done no formula and I'm working full time now and pumping for her☺️
christal·
Мама сына-младенца
@xoamac, yes and u don't have to worry about allergic reactions
Ash·
Мама сына-младенца
Don't listen to them. Keep doing you mama. Breast milk digest quicker.. And the best part it's FREE
christal·
Мама сына-младенца
@klove2016, I think he's fine especially because when he's with them he's throwing up a lot. I know is a bottle but still not like that
Keara 🌻·
Мама дочки-младенца
lol I got the same thing from my boyfriends mother. She was a formula mom. And thinks breastfeeding is weird and not normal 🙄 my baby is 7 weeks and still eats every 2-3 hours. And wakes up anywhere between 2-4 times a night to nurse. I also pump and USALLY get between 3-5oz each boob, each time I pump. So I know I'm making plenty. Plus she weighs 13 pounds already. She was born 8lbs 7oz. Do what your heart says. Your the momma, and you know what works and what doesn't :-)
Sarah krashin·
Мама троих детей
breast fed babies eat more often because its meant to digest formula isn't and is harder to digests, as long as baby has 6 or more wet or pokly diapers in a day your fine and know what your doing ignore them
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You're doing fine. My son is almost 3 and we still breastfeed. He has never had formula. He also has hardly ever used a bottle because i was able to stay home with him for almost 2 yrs. Trust your body.
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
If his diaper count is good then ignore everyone
christal·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you ladies @bonniesue @arivera64 because I don't bottle feed I can't say how much he's eating but the babysitter can
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breastmilk metabolizes faster than formula. Also, babies go thru stages where they feed more often to accomodate their growth. Same as how we eat more as we grow from children, to teens, to adults. Continue what you're doing
Bonnie·
Мама сына-младенца
Cereal is empty calories, can pose a choking hazard and honestly didn't work for anyone that I know personally. You're the mom. You decide what's best for your child.
christal·
Мама сына-младенца
I make enough milk but because he ways so often and so much everyone is saying he need formula or cereal
Bonnie·
Мама сына-младенца
Keep pumping frequently or put that baby to breast frequently. I was told the same thing about my son. Guess what? I'm almost at one year and my son never had formula. I think people say that because it's the choice they made and they need it to be ok. If you don't want to formula feed you do not have to