Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I had to share this picture of Raptor! He is still doing amazing! He has lost a little bit of weight but that's expected! Yesterday was our second time trying to breast feed and he latched and sucked!!! It was so amazing and I am so proud of him!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Shawna Santistevan·
Are you feeding him the 3 meals a day on top of still nursing?
Sarah·
Мама двоих (младенец)
That's what they want us to do. He nurses every 2 hrs as it is though@santistevanmommie
Shawna Santistevan·
I would add the 3 meals on top of nursing. Don't let yourself feeling like you're failing. He just might need a little extra in calories than your body is able to produce. I started caleigha on table food about 8 months and she still nurses at least 4 times during the day and more at night.
China·
My son was the same and the doctors made me scared that he was too small. My baby just so happens to be a little child. Also, when the more active they are, they tend to seem small. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless you know he's not eating enough.
Sarah·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@santistevanmommie, @junesmommy_15 thank you ladies for the pep talk.💞 I'm going to feed him as suggested. This morning was a chaotic one and we were sent from our pedi in family medicine to pediatrics as a precaution in case something bigger is going on. It's so difficult to get him to stay put long enough to feed as it is.lol
Shawna Santistevan·
I understand! I've had to start feeding my little on the go! I literally lay on the couch with a boob out for an hr and as she plays she runs by for milkies