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Shay Leigh
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Well, apparently I'm failing as a mother... Boyfriend told me if I am not working and going to stay home with the baby…

Well, apparently I'm failing as a mother...

Boyfriend told me if I am not working and going to stay home with the baby he wants to come home to a clean house. Even though I'm wiping his pee of the bathroom floor and doing loads of laundry I have to find laying all around the house and clean up his kitchen messes all while taking care of a screaming two month old... I barley find the time to take a poop let alone make the house perfect everyday. And then when he comes home from work or has the day off , it's still my job to do everything for the baby. If I worked all day at home , he should come home and be back on the baby clock... I'm so hurt right now. I really thought I was doing well making sure he always at least had work clothes washed. I'm too ducking depressed for this shit

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madismommy

AuroraМама дочки-младенца

Except the pee.. My SO doesn't pee on the floor..:/ @shayleighnikole

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madismommy

AuroraМама дочки-младенца

OMG I swear my SO does the same exact thing like everything you just said my boyfriend does that too.. Lol! It sucks so bad because that's not how it goes:/ I feel like my SO need to help take care of our daughter just the same .. I feel exactly where you're coming from @shayleighnikole

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christimary0

Christina ✨В ожидании первенца

You tell him that if he wants to talk about failing then maybe we should talk about the fact that he can't control his penis enough to aim properly and then doesn't even have the decency to clean it up off the floor 😂 you're doing great momma. Just keep doing what you're doing.

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annabellasmom

Monica GilbertМама дочки-младенца

Lol @curvymommy and yes @christimary0 I clean up his piss off the floor!! @tellthewolvesimhome I hate it. Depression was bad enough and now post partum is even worse 😞

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curvymommy

curvymommyМама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)

yeeeeesssssss @annabellasmom !!! I hate that lol let me take care of a toddler all day long then clean up then cook then clean up dinner but still have the energy/want to have sex with you at 10pm. let me check, uhm no.

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tellthewolvesimhome

tellthewolvesimhome

I know exactly how you feel ! My son is almost three now but I've been a stay at home mom and my relationship with my boyfriend has definitely gone through so much in that time. I solely take care of my son and I'm solely responsible for everything at home. My boyfriend doesn't clean up after himself at all!! I've been struggling with depression,anxiety, and a chronic illness. It is so hard to be a stay at home mom with depression ! A lot of days it is a struggle and I feel very alone bad under appreciated. I hope it gets better for you ! If you ever need to vent I'm here to listen ❤️

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christimary0

Christina ✨В ожидании первенца

Are you cleaning up your husband's pee off of the floor? 😂

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annabellasmom

Monica GilbertМама дочки-младенца

Sounds like my situation! And they still expect sex

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