ok ladies so if you've been reading my posts for a while you'll notice i had some problems with my ex and had to leave him and when we tried sorting things he hadnt changed or even tried, so hes come to me this morning with a list of things he needs to start doing and he also wrote a love letter to me and bought me a full bunch of 24 red roses (never in 3 years has he done anything like this) btw this didnt win me over although i loved it and cried (didnt show it to his face) he then sat down with me and we spoke about everything literally everything and he admitted to me what hes done wrong and now were on talking terms not only that he sent me out for the afternoon/evening shopping and ive come home and hes cleaned the whole flat, done 3 loads of washing , dried them and put them away, looked after finlay while doing this and hes cooked me food, and then hes sent me for a hot bubbly bath to relax im so so impressed, i dunno what to do now i dunno whether to just leave it abit longer to see if this was just a one off or just sort things out now😕 BTW before anyone says or thinks ive done anything with him or he lives with me etc no he doesnt he comes and sees finlay when he wants as i wouldnt stop him seeing his son and i never had my parents around me so i would obviously want finlay to have both parents around as much as we can☺