Yep, I totally understand! My partner and I have gone from having sex multiple times a week, sometimes even multiple times a day, to every few weeks, if I'm lucky. He doesn't realise how unattractive it makes me feel! I just feel like he's no longer interested, no matter how much I try. I don't mind him watching porn, God I watch it myself sometimes (may be tmi it's my last bloody resort! xD) but at the same time, he could have sex with me more often. Even this morning, he told me he was going to the bedroom to 'sort himself out' and when I tried to join him, we got into an argument and he said it was easier for him to do it himself. If it's like this now, what the hell is it going to be like after our little one is born?! :/ x

noo way :( that's horrible poor ladies x

@gillz_90, I don't agree that it's just a man thing! my father never believed in pornography in fact a lot of people don't not only women but some men find it disturbing and a actual turn off, it's just what ever floats your boat as they say! like some men do drugs. some watch porn. some gamble. but it's hardly something to be proud of I think it's dam right shameful, these women abusing their body's for dirty cash is a disgrace makes me laugh when they try to pretend like its a real job ahaha anyone can lay on their back for cash you don't even have to be attractive not all porn stars have big breast skinny waist perfect designer vaginas it's a wind range of different looking women and that right there is the reason men like it they get bored of the looking at the same girl over an over, I've heard most men that are into porn can't sit an watch the same women over an over again something in them makes them just want more more more xx

Snap!! It's starting to really piss me off 😡 We've been together 10 year years now and it's not something that's really bothered me up until now! He's a man and it's just a man thing they all do it but it's getting on my nerves now that I'm pregnant and he doesn't come near me and I get the whole speech about him finding it weird having sex when theirs a baby in there and all this rubbish even though he knows it's totally safe makes me feel like he's just not attracted to me at the minute cuz of the way I look 👊🏼 but guarantee once babies here he'll be quick enough to want some then 👊🏼

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@jam123, I've been in a relationship for over 5 years, when I was with him for the first 2 years I'd say he was watching porn doing you know what behind my back while I was sleeping when I was doing the shopping ect, he didn't know I new what he was doing the only time it really got to me is when I was pregnant for the second time and I noticed our sex life had changed drastically we went from once or even twice a day to once of twice a week so of course I felt like he lost his sex drive at first but I quickly learnt he hadn't at all because he still found time to wank over porn! it hurt me to the point I felt cheated on felt sick to my stomach felt so insecure ugly undesired didn't trust him at all, felt like I couldn't sleep at night cos he would be doing that as soon as I drift of the fairy land, it really hurt me an I still haven't gotten over the fact he done that to me 3 years later I broke down one night went a bit crazy to say the least well an truly expressed my self ahaha I told him exactly how it made me feel an feeling so strongly about it I wanted to end the relationship it was his choice other women who are nothing to him but some whore behind a screen or the girl with his kids that actually loves him to the point shed die for him! of course he choose me but I'm still paranoid I still check his phone history still question him it drives him mad but pay back is a cunt lol xxx

I use to find porn history on my partners phone and it use to make me feel like crap too! Especially when he use to deny it!! Grr men xx

oh no set him straight!

I don't! I'm sick of it, like if im in the mood he's always too tired or something but if he's in the mood that's it wether I'm tired or not 😩😩

so "when hes in the mood" dont give him it!

I just get told to shut up and stop being stupid, or if I want to do anything he's "not in the mood to do anything" but goes and watches porn 👌🏻👌🏻

punch him