So my daughter is turning 1 on October 29th... now I know a lot of parents want to have big parties, but in my opinion we should just be having like a in house party with a select few. I feel this way for the simple fact she won't remember any of it, and two we're in financial troubles so we really don't have the money to spend on a big elaborate party. Now my guy (her dad) wants to spend 300 plus on a damn Chuck E. Cheese party 😒 now all year I've been the sole one buying all of her necessities (diapers clothes shoes) for the simple fact he pays more on bills... but he's making me feel bad because I don't wanna have a big party. Am I wrong for saying I'm not putting any money towards the party? I'm just buying her cake outfit and gifts. I just think it's stupid. What about y'all? What we y'all do