So my daughter is turning 1 on October 29th... now I know a lot of parents want to have big parties, but in my opinion we should just be having like a in house party with a select few. I feel this way for the simple fact she won't remember any of it, and two we're in financial troubles so we really don't have the money to spend on a big elaborate party. Now my guy (her dad) wants to spend 300 plus on a damn Chuck E. Cheese party 😒 now all year I've been the sole one buying all of her necessities (diapers clothes shoes) for the simple fact he pays more on bills... but he's making me feel bad because I don't wanna have a big party. Am I wrong for saying I'm not putting any money towards the party? I'm just buying her cake outfit and gifts. I just think it's stupid. What about y'all? What we y'all do
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We had a small party for my daughter at our house, I found tiny cake pans and made her 1st cake, I am no baker and it turned out less than perfect, but it was special. I made cupcakes for everyone else, bought 2 snack trays ( we did the party between lunch and dinner so we didnt have to feed everyone)and cheap decorations. I spent $60-70 on everything. Only immediate family was invited, as she is overwelmed by large groups and we dont have much seating in our house.. it tuned out great!
That you!! That's exactly what I wanted to do, there is no point... we already behind on bills but yet now he wants to work extra hours to pay for a party? It really grinds my gears because on a regular day to day he doesn't care about going out buying her stuff or let alone taking her places (that's a whole nother rant) but I feel like he's trying to show out for his people like "oh yea look at all I'm doing for my daughter" when truth be told this will be the first real thing he's done for her since birth and to me it just seems/feels fake. He's more concerned with the OTHER kids having fun and playing when his only concern should be Bailey, it's not like she can do much anyway
no not at all like you said she not going to remember any of it. I'm having a small house party with family and friends.
I don't think you're wrong. Most babies won't even remember a big first birthday party and to me it's a waste of money. We did the same for my son. We had BBQ and a cake at home with just close family members and he had fun.
I just had one at the house too don't make it too big
I didn't do anything for my sons first and won't for this baby, I've never understood the elaborate parties, they have no idea what it's for