been in labor for 36hrs.....I'm so tired and starving to death....bd keeps complaining about how he's so tired he's having a hard time wanting to stay in the room w me.....idk why he doesn't want to stick it out....I just have a feeling that if he leaves I will end up giving birth w no one here.....smh...I'm so ready to be done now...maybe he doesn't realize that being in pain and only sleeping for 6 hrs of the 36 hrs and being bed ridden is also stressful and tiring but Ik it's for a good reason
yea he's still complaining not holding baby yet bc these docs wanted to force a c section and I don't need it so they stopped taking care of me and tried to send me home....I refused discharge now the head doc is saying I'm definitely in labor so now I'm waiting a final and clear decision.
I completely feel you! Mine was in another state having a quarter life crisis all of my pregnancy. He came to the birth and was supportive, but every time he complained about it being another night or how he was so tired I wanted to castrate him! I wish I could say it got better post birth but I still have those moments when he makes excuses and isn't handling any of this. You got this, though! And are doing amazing! I hope you're holding your baby now!
smh thanks...I have no problem being here it's just the selfishness of him that's making me upset...like damn can he think of anyone but himself...throughout my whole pregnancy all he did was run the streets no quality time with me no bonding nothing u would think the least he would do is tough it out since he's been mentally absent my whole pregnancy
Oh momma! Hang in there! I was in labor for 40 hours lucky my boyfriend and sister both toughed it out. We were in the hospital a whole week! I ended up in an emergency c-section at the end.