Rant in progress... kind of annoyed. I was up when my LO got up each time last night... at 2, 4, 6 am. Finally 8 rolls around and I want some sleep! I wake up my LO's dad to take him... not 15 minutes later my LO is yelling (btw, his dad already had a solid 6 hours of sleep). He acts so helpless I wanted to see what he would do, he said remy was hungry. I told him to get food but he didn't know what to do like putting the baby down. Next thing you know, after he feeds him, he just dumps him to my grandma for the rest of the morning! Wtf😒 dude take care of your son
@km416, wow and I see that your baby girl is only 5 months. My boy isn't even 4 months! And he does the same thing... he asks him "what do you want from me?!" I'm like what he wants is for you to stop asking that.
@snowwbunny I know mine has 4 days off and I either have to put tv (which i hate ) on for my daughter so I can get things done. or hold her so she's not watching to much tv. he just sleeps all day and when she starts to get fussy hands to me instead of getting up and trying to entertain her. then he'll be like she's annoying. I'm like dude she's a baby she's to young to be spoiled in my opinion. she cries when she doesn't like something.
@km416, he only works 8 hours a day at a job that isn't very difficult. No physical labor, I'm with our son all day, like he can't offer me relief.
I hate that. my so does the same thing. like it's difficult to watch a baby he helped create
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
I don’t know what to do... my son is 9 months and he is lazy but aggressive... he wants to move around and he can turn around but he refuses to crawl and uses me to pull up to stand up... he doesn’t want to be bothered but wants the help ... he’s so peculiar...he can put himself to sleep but if I’m not in the room he’ll throw a fit until I pat him to sleep.. depending on how he feels... I’m loosing my mind because I don’t know how to deal with him
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
@snowwbunny lol same here it's crazy like be more hands on with the baby. he wasn't living with us till end of July. so it's not like he didn't have to deal with the baby in the beginning and now I'm asking him for help and it's. the same response he said he'll help but it's like 30 minutes and I'm holding the baby doing everything again