I just don't get how a man can just fuck up the whole excitement of finding out what the sex of the baby is...I gave him 2 months to decide if he wanted to do a reveal party he said no then the day of the sono he says he wants to have one more week to decide if he wants a reveal party so I say ok...then midweek he turns around n says that he just wants an intimate moment with me n him opening up the envelope so last night the kids were gone I ask hey babe u ready to open it to know what we r having he's like no I'm not in no rush since this is our last n what if it's not a boy then my dreams will be crushed knowing I'd never have a boy n I'm like ok but that's still no fair to me after u keep going back n forth knowing I want to know to go shopping and plan the shower if it is a boy we have to get things for him so he flips out on me n gets the envelope and tosses it at me n says u open it then fuck it since u can't be patient...how the fuck is that fair to say???? I've been patient n I've been letting u decide n go through the damn motions of what u wanted to do n now u wanna talk shit then walkout cuz u don't wanna finish the conversation about this then ignore my calls then come home to me upset n crying but not even apologize for being a asshole....I just don't get how the hell this was my fault how I did anything wrong all because I want to know what the sex of our baby is...I'm so tired of him being so detached from his emotions with me n this relationship. ..