My baby's father just told his mother that I'm pregnant. Something that I've been wanting for a while. He said she is super mad. That she says it's not easy, a mistake, that I'm not ready. She doesn't want me to have my baby. And now she wants me to go over and talk. Why does she feel entitled to decide if I can have my baby or not? I am not and will never give my baby up.
Thanks I love being pregnant! I'm amazed with the whole process! You're welcome girl ❤☺ @savvylynn1
I don't blame you, I wouldn't talk to her for awhile either. enjoy your pregnancy, it's really a beautiful experience. I love mine. you're welcome, and of course we can! it's what we were made for😉 thank you, I wish you the best as well💙 @moonslugg
It is rude and disrespectful. She's a mother of two, I don't understand how she could have said that a baby is a mistake. It hurt so much I cried so much. I'm not going over or answering her. I'm not having anything to do with her anytime soon.I really don't need the negativity. Thank you really mama, we can both do it. I hope you the best with your baby ❤❤ @savvylynn1
honestly excuse my language but fuck her. that's just SO rude to say & SO disrespected. I wouldn't go over to talk to her, don't even answer her calls or texts. I'm sure that hurt really bad. I was told that too cuz I'm 18 & due in 9 weeks. no baby is ever a mistake, my mom wasn't too happy with me but she never said I shouldn't have him, after a few days she's more excited than I am lol she will come around. you can do it girl & if you already have one(I haven't clicked on your profile), then you can do it again. keep your head up girl
that's best no need to stress and try to force people to see that your baby is amazing @moonslugg
I have a strong feeling she will regret it, for now I'm going to stay away from her @abrahamsmommy
I won't! Thank you and if you ever need anyone to talk I'm here too ❤! @mrscruz0530
even if you were living in her house and underage you still have rights ,that's just bs that she thinks your miracle is a mistake she's going to regret it later once thare here and she wants to be in ur life
Your grown girl you got this. Just don't feed into her negativity. Any time girl feel free to message me if you ever need to talk ❤️ good luck and CONGRATS!
No she is not paying my bills, never has. That's exactly why I wanted her to know out of respect. Now she's calling me. I can't answer her. I'm trying not to, I know my baby isn't a mistake ❤ thank you, thank you so much. You've really been a help
Yes it wasn't right that she said it . She's not the one paying your bills (she's not right? ) and not the one making the baby so it's none of her business. You wanted her to know out of respect not to get approval from her. Don't cry mama your baby is far from a mistake and is being put into your life for a reason. You don't need the negative people in your life. Everything you do from this point on should be for your baby let that be your motivation and you can do anything you don't need anyone to stand in your way
wow that's not her business, my stepmother in law dosent doesn't like and always bring my hubby ex that she is the one and I couldn't take it anymore I scream at her telling to fuck off that she s no one to tell me what to do and to married my hubby ex . by the way my hubby it's 37 and always wanted a baby he found out that he's ex was taking medication for not having one after 11 years ..
And know we have been 2 years together with our first child on the way . And I'm 20 years old
sorry not sorry .
You're right. I didn't think of it that way. It's understandable, I agree. But I don't agree with her saying my baby is a mistake at all. But thank you for your kind words really. I'm crying so hard, but your words have given me comfort ❤ @mrscruz0530
Don't let her get to you. A baby is a huge blessing as well as a huge responsibility. She will change her mind it seems like she's just scared for her son which is understandable but still not fair to you to say it's a mistake. You got this mama you will be an amazing mother don't let the negativity get to you.
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
holy crap. How did it go?! text me!!!