Yes he thinks when I talk about his son is because I hate them...he never has my back when it comes to his kids

@mariah_grandberry, it's difficult when your spouse doesn't have your back. I hope something works out for you. Your husband may see it as you "picking" on his son. I had to open my eyes to my son back talking my husband (his stepdad). I thought he was picking on my son but in the end I had to teach my son respect for him. My husband is learning to let the little things slide now and deal with the things that matter. It's much easier to work together. :)

*laying around ^^^ lol

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@morganmommy79, thank u I will take your advice I'm just so frustrating and my 3 year old lacks up behind himself

Set your standard and be consistent with it. He's too old to be picking up after him. My husband is argumentative too when I say anything about anything. I get so sick of picking up after HIM I finally cleaned house and put his stuff in a pile and kindly said, "there's your stuff to put away" and he can see the majority of stuff is his aging around. I work and do the majority of the housework but no way would I be picking up after a teenager esp if my husband didn't have my back. Start throwing his stuff out if he can't learn to pick it up. 😉

I'm tired u guys and I can't say nothing at all without it being a argument

They even stole my wedding ring and he thinks I lost it

My husband tells me it's not his job his mother straight living a free life smh and I have to deal with it

I know it sounds kinda rude but tell him if he doesn't clean up after him self then he can get his own food, wash his own clothes and do everything else somewhere else, tell your husband that as a 17 year old he has responsibilities too not just you doing it all

Just worry about you and yours. his dad(your husband will get tired of his crap one day) lol