My husband is a good dad but there's things he needs to work on. I've tried to have him help more but I've given up

I feel the same way. my bf when we started dating was asked this question by my friend. " what would you do if you got kayla pregnant" he literally said " I will take care of them both" 2 years later and I get pregnant (surprise) he told me to abort. I said no I can't and we had our daughter which to this day after two months won't be around her. even though he's constantly in the room next to her. I know he'll b a good dad some day but really he's just a big kid at 19 so I gotta wait. 🙍 and train him😂