Patricia Miles
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Patricia Miles·Мама сына-младенца

Am I wrong to be mad?

I work a full time job. I exclusively breastfeed. I carry my son to work with me so I'm having to juggle being a mom and an employee at the same time.

My husband is full time in school but only had to go to campus 2 days a week. So, he is home the other 5 days because I want him to be able to get school finished, but I at least expect him to clean the house while one gone. I have been at work going on I hours... I still have 2 hours and 45 minutes before I can leave and go home. I shot him a phone call really quick to see how his morning is going and he just got up! Just now! He does this all the time. So I have to come home and cook, clean, and do laundry and still keep taking care of the baby. I never get any sleep. My one off day i woke up early by him because he has to listen to college game day at the highest volume.

So again, am I wrong to be mad?

This is not a rant about him not having a job, that's my request right now. I just want him to finish school and help around the house.

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ty_no_ki_love
Sara·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

i think you should talk to him and make him understand that you are tired and it will be nice if he helps you. there's nothing wrong of being mad at him

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if he's not working he can at least contribute around the house to help you out. sounds like you are in a tough spot. Yeah he may do college full time but if he's only going on campus two days out of the week, he's free the other days to help you more. I'm sorry mama. hope things get better

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akeelah_naomi_mommy
Arian Clark·Мама двоих (младенец)

honestly that's the least he can do since all he has to do is go to school

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