
Momma's, I just want to share my birth story since it is still fresh in my head...sorry it is kinda long but I just have to share with you beautiful ladies
Last Saturday I take my husband to work like I always do but when I get to the job all of a sudden I get extremely tired and I tell him that I am going to go home and take a nap like I usually do but that day I only got an hour and then I got the nesting bug lol and I started helping my sister in law get the kitchen straightened up and then my back start hurting and think nothing of it and then go get my husband from work when he called me to come pick him up at midnight then we get home my back is hurting a lil bit more and coming a lil bit closer and try to lay down to get some sleep or try to get comfortable but nope I lay down with my husband and he starts rubbing my back and that don't help so I go to the bathroom and stand at the sink and just start swaying and it helped then I started getting that feeling when you have to poop that's when I knew it was time to go we get to the hospital the dr checks me and says that I am only 3 cm then I have another strong contraction while my most amazing husband standing right by my side and hating seeing me in so much pain then he witnessed my water breaking and tries to clean me up all the while I am laying on my left side and then the ambulance gets there to transfer me to another hospital and this is only like a few streets away from the highway and I'm still contracting and trying to focus on my breathing and still not trying to push but my body was pushing him out by its self next thing I knew I felt that familiar burn and thought oh shit then I told the paramedic it burns and he checks me and he can see his head and yells to the driver to pull over and then he tells me to push again then he unwrapped my sons cord from his neck and hand handed him to me and this is the picture that the paramedic took and sent it to my phone all the while my husband had to go back to the house to grab our bags because we had no time to grab anything so he didn't even know what had transpired so when he gets to the hospital he was in for a huge surprise and the look on his face was just pure joy, happiness and so much love since this is his first and I did all this by myself delivery and all no time for any pain medication or epidural #allnatural
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I find it very alarming when we see for MONTHS “My husband doesn’t want another child”...”He wants to wait”...”he won’t have sex with me”....and then you keep trying to conceive anyways and when you do get pregnant ask us all a cute way to announce it to him? This is entrapment....conceiving behind someone’s back then unveiling it as a gift seems so incredibly disturbing to me..
End rant.
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Please help!
My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
It’s no problem when my money is covering my husbands part of the bills but god forbid when it’s time for him to pay me back no only does he give me a little at a time when I wasn’t paying bills little at a time but he always try to play this guilt card talking about I got no money well I don’t got money either when I have to pay ur portion I don’t feel bad
awwww Congats