**NEED ADVICE** My son is 9 months old. His Father has been out of work for a very long time. He has…
**NEED ADVICE**
My son is 9 months old. His Father has been out of work for a very long time. He has only worked about 3 months since our son's birth. He smokes weed (which I don't have an issue with except…), he cannot get a job because of it and I have asked him multiple times to stop for solely that reason alone. He got his guard card which I was excited about and so proud. He had to use fake urine for the drug test for the company he applied for. He hasn't heard anything back. I suggested he contact his friend who got him the job offer. He said he did so I of course asked what he said and he told me, "He said he would ask." I just got out of the shower and saw his phone sitting there and I looked and he never contacted his friend. He lied over something so stupid and when I confronted him he told me, "It's none of your fucking business." I said it was because he got me pregnant, has no job, and continues to smoke. He is sleeping on the couch by his own volition. I am falling out of love from this lack of ambition and motivation and I really do not know what else to do. My son needs his Daddy, but I need the man I fell in love with to step up.
Jasmine Siqueiros·
Мама сына-младенца
Girl you need a man who will see up for you and your baby. But especially your baby. A woman makes sacrifices for her child without giving it a second thought. Men should have to do the same! I know a lot of people say it's because moms have a stronger connection with babies than the dad but that's no excuse! Tell him to step it up or you'll find someone who will!
Sonja Griffith·
As much as he needs his daddy he needs his mommy, so if mommy isn't happy with his dad it will definitely show and eventually have an impact on him.. Whether you guys stay together or separate I'm sure his daddy will still be there. There's no point in you waiting for him to step up while you guys are being effected... If he truly cared he would be doing everything he could to make sure you guys are secure.. Its that simple.. Good Luck girl! I hope it gets better!
Ana Victoria·
Мама сына-младенца
@itsjasmine, @alanasmommy81815 thank you ladies! I'm thinking of going to stay with my parents for a little bit. They live close so he would still be able to see him.
Sonja Griffith·
It's going to be hard believe me.. Especially when you just want him to do what's expected for his family sake... You can talk to me if you ever need a listening ear! Stay strong for your little one!
Ana Victoria·
Мама сына-младенца
@alanasmommy81815, thank you again 💕 I will try my best.
Karra·
Мама дочки-младенца
Its easier to feed 2 mouths then 3. I don't thinknits fair when one parent just lays around all day unless one is the stay home parent and it was agreed on between both parties. Things (especially babies) are only getting more expensive. And it very much is your business considering youre a family.
Ana Victoria·
Мама сына-младенца
@karramaej, exactly! We agreed I would stay home and take care of our son and the house while I finish my school which I only have one more semester of. And he would go to work.