How does one cope, after finding out your husband cheated on you with your Bestfriend of 16 years..…

I'm sorry 😞 that must be really hard if you need someone to talk to just message me.

Thank you @clairerae29

that is beyond trifling !! shame on them two . im soooo sorry your going through that !! theres no words to take away that pain and anger but i can be a listening ear if you need .

don't blame just one. blame them both. that's no way to be a husband and that's definitely not and never was a real friend. I'm not going to tell you to up and leave because it's just not that simple. I will tell you if you stay then it's going to be a lifetime of constant hurt, questioning, and wondering what he's doing. I hope you find peace in your situation at some point. do what's best for you and your child. people make mistakes.. but remember... after the 1st time.. if It happens so again it's no longer a mistake. it is then a habit. good luck love.

Smh I am so sorry!! You will get through however you choose to deal with it!!

agreed with the above comments I can't even imagine. I have been cheated on by my ex but we weren't married and it wasn't a friend of 16 years we tried to work it out but he never changed it just got worse. whatever you choose I hope it works out great for you and I pray for you to have inner peace.

I have been cheated on before too and it is so hard to deal with those feelings alone. let me know if you need an ear.

i am also going through this now found out he has been cheating about a yr all while i was pregnant just had his son 3 mnths ago. there was tlkn on fb, phone calls, and just things i hated to see. im still trying to cope its hard trying to stay and work it out as this happened to me before when i was pregnant with my daughter. its up to you to want to stay and work it out it is not easy especially with children. so sorry this happened to you.

for me it was lots of prayer and time to myself but this happen so long ago before me and my husband got married so it's just water under the bridge now and I don't hold anything against him and I trust him but for me I just prayed and spent time alone with myself, to give myself time to think.