I need your guys opinion before I speak with both of my parents. So Gabe's dad wants me to go on a cruise with him when he gets back from overseas on December 11-16. Thing is I EBF Gabe, he will be 9 months then but is it worth me giving him formula just to go on a cruise? 🤔😩
yeah I could try! he'll be 9 months then so he probably will be eating more food but still @deebee
why don't you just pump like crazy and store the milk
you're right! I mean he should be eating more food then so yeah @klove23
You can start pumping now. If you don't have enough saved you can give him both. But you'll want the person feeding him to know how to pace so he'll still breastfeed, Also you'll want to pump while one vacation so your supply won't stop.
@luuuuuucyyy, oh I totally missed that part lol but I definitely understand that! I feel the same with wanting to go back to work.. I've been pumping and saving though but I just think about if it doesn't end up working out. As for you though, its just a few days, so I would still try to pump just to see what you can get and maybe he could still have some and use formula to supplement
He would take before but it's been months. Just from the 11-16 but I feel almost selfish for that ): @klove23
but yeah just to see and I heard if moms doing both.. do you plan on being gone that long that you would have to wean him off though ?
you would probably have to introduce it slowly before the fact so you can see how Gabe reacts so you can base your decision off of that
Right. that would probably mean me weaning him off ): I mean I can try & pump and see 🤔 @klove23
@luuuuuucyyy, aw well formula for the time being would be the next option.. fed is best lol
I never would get anything from pumping 😖 @teambarnes @savvylynn1 @klove23
why don't you start pumping and saving? by then you'll have enough saved for him for when you're gone
You can't pump and freeze for those dates?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It happened....?
2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.


Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
I might try that @ktwins188 thank you ☺️ @deebee