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Lucy
Lucy
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I need your guys opinion before I speak with both of my parents. So Gabe's dad wants me to go on a cruise with him when…

I need your guys opinion before I speak with both of my parents. So Gabe's dad wants me to go on a cruise with him when he gets back from overseas on December 11-16. Thing is I EBF Gabe, he will be 9 months then but is it worth me giving him formula just to go on a cruise? 🤔😩

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luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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I might try that @ktwins188 thank you ☺️ @deebee

deebee

Donna B

Good luck 🙂

luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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yeah I could try! he'll be 9 months then so he probably will be eating more food but still @deebee

ktwins188

Kassandra

Мама двоих (младенец)

why don't you just pump like crazy and store the milk

luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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you're right! I mean he should be eating more food then so yeah @klove23

deebee

Donna B

You can start pumping now. If you don't have enough saved you can give him both. But you'll want the person feeding him to know how to pace so he'll still breastfeed, Also you'll want to pump while one vacation so your supply won't stop.

klove23

shakala

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@luuuuuucyyy, oh I totally missed that part lol but I definitely understand that! I feel the same with wanting to go back to work.. I've been pumping and saving though but I just think about if it doesn't end up working out. As for you though, its just a few days, so I would still try to pump just to see what you can get and maybe he could still have some and use formula to supplement

luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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He would take before but it's been months. Just from the 11-16 but I feel almost selfish for that ): @klove23

klove23

shakala

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but yeah just to see and I heard if moms doing both.. do you plan on being gone that long that you would have to wean him off though ?

klove23

shakala

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you would probably have to introduce it slowly before the fact so you can see how Gabe reacts so you can base your decision off of that

luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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Right. that would probably mean me weaning him off ): I mean I can try & pump and see 🤔 @klove23

klove23

shakala

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@luuuuuucyyy, aw well formula for the time being would be the next option.. fed is best lol

luuuuuucyyy

Lucy

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I never would get anything from pumping 😖 @teambarnes @savvylynn1 @klove23

klove23

shakala

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Yeah if you're not taking him I would pump and freeze.

savvylynn1

Savannah Valdez

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why don't you start pumping and saving? by then you'll have enough saved for him for when you're gone

teambarnes

Steph

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)

You can't pump and freeze for those dates?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?