how would you take it if the father of your baby told you he is only trying to work things out for…

my husband said basically hes only gonna be their till hes 18 ...then he said..sleep in the same bed and everything just not love eachother

I wouldn't stay. you should never stay in a relationship JUST for a child. sometimes things work out better being co-parents.

um. he may have love for you but may not be in love

That's terrible. My husband has a child with another woman and they knew that staying together wasn't what was going to be best for their baby. They didn't love each other, they didn't get along and they knew that their child seeing that growing up would be damaging. They've never been to court and they both equally take care of their son in a civil way. My step son is 6 now and he gets to see love through his dad and my marriage and will see it in his moms when she decides to get married too. That's important.

i wouldnt say that he doesnt love you but for whatever reason he doesnt want to be with you and wants to act like ge does for the baby. situations like that rarely work out though. where one is only staying for the child...