Joined a mommy group on FB that my friend invited me to. After 2 days I left it. Why? Because a lady…
Joined a mommy group on FB that my friend invited me to. After 2 days I left it. Why? Because a lady made a post asking for opinions from new moms so I commented...I was maybe the 8th commenter. But after I commented I started getting replies saying I'm a dumb bitch, I'm endangering my child and need her taken from me, I must be a special kind of stupid, saying I'm too stupid to be writing novels (because heaven forbid I typed more than a sentence). Them calling me shit, degrading my parenting style....I was fine with it. But then they all brought my daughter into it and started calling her the spawn of a retard, a lying ass prairie nigger (pardon my french for the use of that word....also, how can my 11 month old be a liar???), should've just aborted the fucker instead of making her live a life with me as her mom, hope you lose her and realize your stupidity, "she could choke and I wouldn't care or feel sorry because you did that to her", etc. Why did they attack me? Because the original post asked when new mom's introduced table foods instead of baby food or formula. My comment said I introduced her to table foods, soft table foods, around 4 1/2-5 months old because baby food upset her tummy and EBF just wasn't filling her up, and she wouldn't accept a bottle for supplementing, but she did perfectly fine with mashed potatoes watered down with breastmilk and some thick ham chunks for teething on. In a support group, why was I attacked like that for stating what was asked as an opinion? I'll never understand. And the fact that they not only attacked me, but also attacked my daughter, who's not even a year old and who they've never met, made it worse. Definitely done with FB mommy groups. Think I'll just stick to this app 👌 Haven't met any negativity yet here.
💚Mizz Rita💚·
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Wow 😡
Lindsey Zastoupil·
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@babygirl10-11, Yeah, I was pissed and hurt. The admins of the group even started in. I reported it.
Deanna·
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That sounds awful. Sorry you went through that.
Lindsey Zastoupil·
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@babynessa, It was horrible. But, I reported it and got their page taken down. Small victory on my end...I'm just glad my daughter couldn't read it, and I hope they can turn their mindsets around and be more positive with people rather than targeting with negativity and hatred.
Roxell·
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That's terrible.There's only one girl who has tried to start drama in a fb group for me,the rest seem fine.I am in first time moms,and some local ones.What group was this?Those girls sound so mean.I understand if they differ in opinion or something,but how they went about it is not okay.
Lindsey Zastoupil·
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@roxell, It was MommiesForLife or something like that.
Jacinda ·
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Hope your reported those women. Plus I started the same time with my daughter. Bananas were my starter choice
Roxell·
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oh okay.You can report things to the admin as also report the whole group too.Sorry you had to go through that.
Alexandria·
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yeah those uncensored mommy groups just suck on fb so much drama