Just need to go on a rant coz I'm so pissed of wih my husband. So today is his day off, his first…
Just need to go on a rant coz I'm so pissed of wih my husband. So today is his day off, his first since we found out I'm pregnant and he promised to spend the entire day wih me. which isn't much since he woke up at 3. anyway so just now his cousin from newcastle called and says he's in london and is it OK if he says over tonight? Husband obviously said yes. Hense me being pissed.
a little back story on his cousin. He came and stayed for the weekend I found out I was pregnant the first time. which I was OK with but then a a couple of weeks later he stayed for 4 weeks while he recovered from a small operation and his was while I was miscarrying that baby! I begged my husband to turn him away since he does have other family in london but my husband wouldn't do that for me.
Then he came again when I was told I'm having my second miscarriage and stayed a some more days! I was pissed off wig my husband then too but he wouldn't turn his cousin away.
Then as luck would have he sister 8n law came and stayed for a few days when that miscarriage started.
Now, ive started to associate bad things with that guy.
I'm finally pregnant again and he's letting the jinx into my house. He thinks im crazy and doesn't see that he's done anything wrong! Apparently I'm over reacting. Maybe I am. maybe I'm not but I don't think it's wrong for me to want my husband to do something for me for once.
maria💕·
i think he should respect your opinion more than anyones else! talk to him but stay calm hun for the baby x
Parvin·
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@apunini ikr? And the thing is he's promised he'd never put this cousin before me ever again. we had a huge bust up the second time when our families got involved. But now he claims that he doesn't know what I'm talking about!
maria💕·
@ttcrainbowbaby, well if it was me id say im going to a hotel or a friends house or u dont have ur cousin here. tell him it's also your house and evrything or who comes in it should always be discussed between both of you..
maria·
your husband needs to show u and your baby respect and love. this is well out of order.
Parvin·
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@apunini I've already told him I don't intend to leave the room. He'll be lucky if I even bother saying hi to the guy. He can cook, clean and tidy up after the guy. I really don't care how he explains my absence. I'm normally really friendly and get on well with the cuz. Tbh it's not him but my husband is have the problem with.
Parvin·
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@riab1985 @apunini
thanks for your support and comments guys. I really needed a sounding board. My husband actually had the nerve to blame my beig upset on being hormonal and said I'm the only person who each this way and no one would agree wih me.
maria·
Oh hell no. he's being totally unreasonable. It's a tough time being pregnant you don't need someone else adding added stress x
maria·
*extra stress
Parvin·
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@riab1985 thanks. I agree. I'm gonna keep to myself and maybe have an early night. he can deal with his cousin.
vanessa·
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urgh men! they just don't bloody understand! He should listen to what you have to say! Try not to stress about it hun and I hope it all goes well for you with this pregnancy! x
Parvin·
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@nessie95 thanks hun. I've been trying for over 6 years and after 2 miscarriages I'm really hoping this is the one!
Parvin·
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@apunini @riab1985 @nessie95
So the guy arrived nearly an hour ago.... Said he needed to wash up after a long journey which is fine and understandable. but he's still in there! Ugh! I need to pee so bad!
I think he's bloody having a bath! who the hell does that? Without any warning? I'm giving him 5 minutes and then banging on the door.
maria·
eek how annoying grrrrr
vanessa·
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I'd break the bloody door down personally, you don't walk into someone's house and jump in their bath with asking, family or not! some people just take liberties! x
Parvin·
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@nessie95 Ikr? He claims he wasn't having a bath. I was annoyed enough to ask. But I don't buy it. wth was he doing for an hour then? I told him straight. there are 2 other people in the house. he needs to let us know if he's gonna take long so we can bloody prepare!
vanessa·
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no one spends an hour just having a wash! 😑 does he know you're pregnant? if so, he should be a bit more understanding with the toilet situation and how is pregnant women never leave the loo haha. x
Parvin·
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@nessie95 lol. no he doesn't know. I think. I've left it to my husband to decide when he wants his family to know. Not sure if he told him.
vanessa·
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ahh okay then, even so, he has to consider the other people in the house. x