my bd texts "ILY" and of course he lies to baby mama number 1 to make her feel special. lol. i'm so…

Wow. That sucks

Just remain strong for you and your child! Gods gotcha!

The fuck. Men are so nasty

yea..he broke up with me recently and moved her in mind you she's young and dumb. Than he randomly texts me that. i'm guessin when i texted back she was present. so you know he had to cover it up like a dumb dumb. All he does is lie he's the ultimate f*ckboy. smh @housfullofgrls @2queenbee9

i am girl! thank youuu @nolans1stlove

Yeah. no thanks. and you need to tell him we dont need to speak unless it is regarding our child

thank youu @mrs.n2014

he barely wants to know about the baby, he said he'll get what the baby needs at the last minute. in Jan. lol. it's pitiful. when just last month we were together. but i cant keep the past in my mind you ladies are right. i'm def trying to get my mind and energy back together starting tonight because i kno i deserve better @2queenbee9. @mrs.n2014

@2queenbee9,

I'm in the same boat as you girl but I just recently cut him off until the baby gets here . Because he too broke up with me and moved in with his other babyma but still texts me all the time with the I love you and my princess your carrying and etc but then tell her we don't talk at all when she asks him . It was just such a headache and he's not buying anything at all at this point I'm due in jan too . So I just did what I thought was best for me and mines right now and that's too leave him alone all together until our princess gets here since he's not doing anything to help prepare for her anyways . @waitingformyuniverse and @mrs.n2014 great advice you couldn't of said it better !!

@jeanetta25 I'm glad you can relate. yesterday i thought i was going emotionally crazy.My whole thing is don't hit me up period if you're just gonna lie to the other. and all she does is post the lies he's telling on fb. its soo hard. but def doesnt make since to keep getting upset. its crazy. again im so glad we can relate

@waitingformyuniverse, yea I can completely relate to that . It is hard and frustrating specially when the 3rd party ( the other female) no that. They lien and really still try and talk us but because they lie they except it and think they're better . His babyma is so petty that at first I was trying to be civil with her because my princess is going to be her daughters sisters and I want them all to have a bond I'm not a petty person . She tried to play the friend card with me but then I'm always here that she was dogging me on the book she would just talk to me to try and get info to see if me and him really still talk and etc . Just so fucking dumb !! But after crying and being upset for so long I realized that's it's him he's the problem and if he's not doing anything to support ours at the moment then there NOTHING to talk about !!! Cause he do is make up more lies @waitingformyuniverse . You just gotta let him go for now if he's just bringing you bullshit and stress and hope for the best down the line and when your baby gets here . I know I pray that we all get along and he can be a dad to ours without being an dick and thinking with his !! But I can no longer give him any attention !!

he's def the problem. i realized that too. how can you love yourself and treat others the way they do. its sickening smh. I def pray for better days as well and that things will change when our baby gets here. Yea my giving him attention days are over. i cant do it anymore. I wish you an amazing pregnancy.

@jeanetta25,

Same to you 😊 and if you ever want to talk I'm here @waitingformyuniverse

@jeanetta25, thank you and i def will. Also the same for you. feel free to hmu anytime