when did you ladies take maternity leave? I work in a restaurant and constantly standing on my feet on concrete. I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant now wondering if I should try and stick it out?
I took my leave at 36 weeks. I could have kept working but I was soooo over it. I was on my feet all day outside walking 10+ miles (just at work) and carrying heavy stuff. Honestly I say take it when you want, not when someone tells you to.
I started my leave five days before my scheduled c section and with my first, I worked up until I had the baby; however, I was never a server and not on my feet often at all.
can you cut down on your hours until you need to be off?
haha all people do is give me dirty looks to be honest not so many nice people around these days
If you're a waitress I almost guarantee pitty tips lol

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
It's up to you as long as your body can handle it... So it's on you, go when you can't take it anymore