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Ashley Nicole Messick
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Ashley Nicole Messick·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
Anyone get depressed because they got a certain gender that they didn't want? I haven't found out my babies gender but, for the longest time I thought girl, I already have a little boy. Now, I believe I'm having a boy for some reason but, nothing but my thought has changed.
18.09.2016
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jessicruz
jessica·Мама двоих (8 лет, 18 лет)
gender disappointment is a real thing. I've never experienced it but it does exist. if you go to ingender.com , they have a lot of women on there going through it.
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simply_unsimple
Janayy ❤·Мама сына (8 лет)
I can admit, I was disappointed for a long time when I found out I was having a boy. Yes, I was thankful he was healthy but it didn't change the fact that I wanted a girl..It actually took me months to accept it lol..I googled it..Apparently it's alot of women who feel like that..I think it's called gender disappointment or something like that.
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kdchaos
Kadie·Мама двоих (8 лет, 11 лет)
I felt this way when I first found out I was having a girl. I so wanted another boy & I was so sure it was a boy. I wasn't excited after I found out & I felt awful about it but as soon as I started shopping for a girl & figured out her name, I got super excited and I wish I could go back and change how I felt. Everything will be fine, you'll see 💞
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reyesmomma
Crystal·Мама дочки (8 лет)
no.! a baby is a baby
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tiffanigypsy
tiffani gypsy·Мама сына (9 лет)
I feel like everything about 2nd pregnancy is different about the first, it might just not feel as special because you've already been through it. I'd just give yourself some time to come around to the it.
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ashnicole3x
Ashley Nicole Messick·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
I feel like poop admitting this but, I feel like I can't bond with my baby, not like I did with Bentley. @tiffanigypsy8
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tiffanigypsy
tiffani gypsy·Мама сына (9 лет)
I was for a while after I found out. I wanted a girl also, I had dreams of having a little girl. I was honestly so upset when I found out I was having a boy. It didn't hel that mt boyfriend was like "I told you so" because he thought it was a boy and wanted a boy. But after a few days of putting it into perspective, I loved the idea of having a boy. And I don't want to try again because I know I'll end up with another boy, like karma for being bitter when I first found out what I was having.
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emily18234
Emily·Мама подростков
I wanted a girl so bad the first time around, but life has a way of working out and being thankful for what you're given.
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