Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
opinions? I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Rant. I have a co worker (male) who is a little on the weird side, I used to speak to him normally, until two of my co workers told me that he would always ask for me whenever I was not working.. this completely creeped me out, so now I keep my conversations short/ distant .. he asked me once while we were both in the brake room why I was acting uncomfortable around him, but when he asked me this he said it with a creep smile as if he would find pleasure if I responded with "yes I'm uncomfortable" I told him I didnt know what he was talking about.. he asked me again on Friday if I felt uncomfortable around him.. and I told him I like my space (every time he would ask me something he would get extra close, and I back up about 3-6 inches away from him) he took my response through one ear and out the other because he later wrote me an email, that again. Creeped me out and was completely unnecessary. I'm at the point where I don't even want to work at my office because I'm done.
Lastnight I was talking to my father in laws girl friend about the situation with my husband. She told his dad about it and he texted rick😒. Well I asked him what he said to his dad and he said "nothing, I didn't want to make you look like a fool for telling me to leave"! Little does he know that his dad agreed with me that I was right to tell him to leave! He said that he appreciates me taking such good care if his son and grandbabies and I'm like a daughter to him and if I ever need him to wAtch the twins to get a nap or shower that he'd always be available to come help. That meant alot to me. But see Rick thinks his dad sided with him. That I was in the wrong. Um no lol his dad ALWAYS sides with me because he doesn't like the way his son is getting. Lazy. And not wanting to help me. He raised rick and his twin brother by himself and knows how hard it is. He gave up everything for his sons and now he's seeing how rick is being and is really upset about it. He said I should NEVER have to beg or even ask his son for help. He should see when I get overwhelmed and just do things for me so it's easier on me.... I really do appreciate his dad and him always trying to give me encouraging words I just wish his son could here those words too..
Kristen·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Its a painful process, but it's something that can't be forced. I figured that out the hard way. probably the same reason he missed out on his other two kids tbh. @optimusviolet
·Ответить