me and my husband decided last night let's go visit my mom since I barely see her.. we get here an…
me and my husband decided last night let's go visit my mom since I barely see her.. we get here an she barely talks to us. and then once we come inside me and him sit in the living room and I don't head from her for the rest of the night even though she is right there in the kitchen. he tells me to go over there and spend time with her... so I walk over to her and try to get her attention and talk to her.. but everything I say she just ignored me. so I walked back an he saw my face and just hugged me and asked if I wanna go home. of course I did.. we have to sleep on the floor when I'm pregnant and it's hard enough for me to sleep, my mom like always won't give her daughter any attention even when we barely see each other. and I find It sad how I needed my mom to come over the other day and she made excuses. she always has an excuse as to why she can't come. and then she wants to throw me a baby shower. I said we should at least make invitations and send them out because it's getting closer and by December I won't be able to come here because how far it is. she always ignores it. idk what to do about her. I always have bad vibes coming into this house. and now I'm up because I just can't sleep no more from all the pain I'm in after sleeping on the hard ass floor all night. sorry about the rant.. just needed to get it out.
Ashley·
My mom is the same way with me except she lives to put me down!! Any chance she gets to run me down she will!! I needed my mom a few times being pregnant and she just didn't care to be there!! The best thing to do is just let it go I know it's hard but the best thing I could have done was come to the conclusion that she's never going to change or care so I have to take everything she says or does lightly cuz it may not happen. Nor will she care!! It is terrible believe me I know it hurts more than anyone could ever imagine but it's the only way your going to not get so upset about it. I guess what in saying is negative people do not need to be in your life they cause more stress than good!! And if your mom is the person who is negatively affecting you then you need to not write her off but put her on the back burner as someone who can potentially hurt you! I don't know if that makes any sense I can try to elaborate more if you need me to!! And if you need someone to talk to I have gone thru it with my mom since I was 6 years old she never cared about me and still doesn't!! So message me anytime!! I'm sorry about your mom and I promise if you can block her out it will get better
👑💋😋Queen😋💋👑·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (25 нед.)
thanks so much! an yea she isn't that great but she's there some times.. just can't count on her at all tbh. but I'm sorry about your mom. idk how they treat their own kids like that. I will never treat my daughter like that. an sorry for the late reply @ashcos
Ashley·
Oh it's ok we are all busy woman I get it!! And I'm sorry about your mom!! I have a 7 yr old daughter and a 3 wk old son and I will never treat them the way my mother treated me!! She was a terrible person to me l just learned from her mistakes you kno