so tmi i had sex last night i had my daughter three & half weeks ago. it kinda hurt. i just dont want to get a hysterectomy i still have another two kids to go. i just want the d and was tired of giving blow jobs while i was hella horny. did i mess up? i am waiting another three weeks just to be on the safe side with my son i only waited two weeks and was perfectly fine this time around i didnt heal as fast.