How do you ladies handle a double pregnancy on the family? My brother in laws wife is pregnant and…
How do you ladies handle a double pregnancy on the family? My brother in laws wife is pregnant and also expecting a boy. She already has a girl and a boy and this is my second boy. I can't help but feel a bit jealous and I have no idea why. I know they had been struggling with conceiving for almost years and I want to be happy but I just can't. My brother in law is going their baby all the attention like knitting blankets for them and little outfits. She's even buying their baby stuff. She never knitted a blanket for Andrew. She started but never finished. She hasn't done anything for this baby either. I hate feeling like a bad person but would it kill his family to just be happy for us? Congratulate us? I know we got pregnant really soon with him but that was our choice to do it. Everyone is so distant with this pregnancy. It's just his family not mine.
Jacinda ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Don't have the double pregnancy problem but when I was pregnant almost no one on his side gave her anything. It all came from my side which is shocking because his side was the most "supportive " about our relationship. I mean even know his grandmother haven't gotten her shit. I wish his father was still alive. He dead a couple months before we found out we were pregnant. He would of been that person doing too much lol. He would've been ecstatic to have a granddaughter and be there for a pregnant the entire time with someone who would've wanted him there.
Diana·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (24 нед.)
@jaixi, I don't want my second child feeling in loved. They are always breaking up and she always kicks him out. There is just so much wrong with their relationship. I kid won't make it better and I know that's what they're hoping it will do.
Ally·
my SO. and I had been ttc since july 13. and I recently found that I'm pregnant. well the day i had a bfp, my SIL announced she is pregnant. she is like a month or 2 ahead of me. she wasn't even trying. her and the baby daddy have only been together for maybe 3-4 months. and they both do drugs and all that other nonsense. neither of them have a job. my MIL praises her and the baby daddy. and supports them. I'm terrified to announce my pregnancy.
Jacinda ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@guaderrama_babies2, that sad . You should put a kid on the equation until you're okay .
Diana·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (24 нед.)
@allyk.xmommy, the bad part is that she's not that far behind me. We're due like maybe 3 weeks apart. I don't even feel like telling them anything about my baby boy
Joie·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)
My sister in law and I were pregnant at the same time. She had my nephew in June and my son is coming on Monday. So we were pregnant together for the majority of the time. Oh! Both boys and both of our second children.
Ally·
@guaderrama_babies2, yea, my SIL is maybe 11 weeks. I'm between 4-6 maybe more. will know more with the ultrasound. my MIL doesn't like me bc I'm not the mother of my step kids. but I've been in my step kids lives for almost 2 years. I take care of them. I teach them. I love them like my own child. my son only knows my SO and his family as his own. and my MIL is sweet to him, but definently pushes him to the side. she has had every single birthday party at her house. but didn't offer for my son to have a part there and didn't show up to his first birthday party. it sucks. and with this pregnancy, I know she will look down on it even though we own our home. have been together for 2 years. we have 2 vehicles. my SO has an amazing job. and we do EVERYTHING on our own. but because I'm not my SOs ex, who lies, cheats and pushed the kids away, I'm not good enough. it's rough. and I know my children won't get the love they deserve from her because of it
Jami·
my cousin is pregnant, due in October and I just had my son. I was the first to have a baby in the family in a looooong time, but she seems to be getting praised more. my significant others family has very much treated me better than my own