mini rant alert.
we live with my fiances parents. his mum moans if she's barely had a hug from scarlett in the day time. so I'm constantly trying to keep her happy by letting her spend a lot of time with scarlett. which is now making me feel like I never get to hold my own daughter. because I'm always doing things like her bottles or getting her feed ready for next time l. by time I've done everything it's her bath time and bed time. I'm always just trying to keep his parents happy so they don't stress my fiance out who stresses me out. when I'm sat down his mums getting cuddles from scarlett. just so she doesn't moan. they have more of a bond with scarlett than I do. don't know what to do anymore. on the brink of tears right now.
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I was like this with Scarlett 😂, I got to the point were I just told her that she was mine and that being grandparents meant they were important but it wasn't about keeping them happy anymore and that I needed to be a mum and left to it, you need to be happy as well or else it's just going to get you down even more to the point where it makes everything worse xx
it just stresses my fiance out which makes me stress. I just feel like the feeder and butt changer.
You need to tell them Hun it's your daughter and you should be doing all them things even if it makes them moan she's your child not theirs x
I just don't want everyone else being stressed out. it's also like my mum doesn't see her often only about once a month because she lives 3 hours away. also I just think when we move out she won't see her everyday so how's she going to cope then