my boyfriend and i live with his parents. they see our baby a lot and hold him every single day. it really bothers me. his mom is always taking my son out of my arms. the other day she tried to take him and i said "no." she said "why?" I told her that I was holding him. she said "come on you know me, I'll only hold him for a little." I was like whatever and gave him to her. I got him back and went on. she later talked with my bf about the situation say that she doesn't like living in a place where she feels she can't hold our son. well yesterday her husband decides to say something to me. he goes on and on about who he thinks I am and how my love is a weird love or no love at all. just because I was never close with any of my grandparents. he even called me a bad mom. there only way I could be a bad mom to a 2 month old is if he isn't cleaned or fed, and there is no problem there!