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Emily
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So my boss changed everyone's schedules without warning or anything. There is a lot of heavy lifting and I got scheduled…

So my boss changed everyone's schedules without warning or anything. There is a lot of heavy lifting and I got scheduled alone when I'll be 28 weeks pregnant. I know when you're pregnant you're not broken or unable to do things, but I'm not comfortable doing a lot of heavy lifting that far along especially having lost a baby in the past. My coworker was in my boss's office talking about HER schedule and was like "By the way I don't know if you thought about it but Emily probably shouldn't be alone being pregnant." And my boss said "I don't care, she'll just have to figure it out. Nobody gets any special treatment for anything, even being pregnant." I've already been to the ER with cramping and bleeding from over doing it here. I know some people continue to do everything but I'm just not comfortable possibly putting my pregnancy in danger for a job. Do I sound crazy? I'm just kinda lost about what to do.

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reyesmomma

CrystalВ ожидании первенца

when you bring in a doctor's note you have to bring it into HR anyways

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emilye

EmilyВ ожидании первенца

@wisky80wifey, @reyesmomma @kendrbaby thanks for the opinions! I'm going to the doctor on Tuesday and will talk to her about it then. If I get something from my doctor saying I can't do it there's a chance my boss will still try to force my so if I have to I'll go to her boss or HR about it.

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kedrababy

KedraВ ожидании первенца

Everything they said above. Im having the same problems with my job now & id rather jobless than lose my baby

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reyesmomma

CrystalВ ожидании первенца

you need to contact your human resources department and talk to them and see if they can change your work to light duty or see if you can start your FMLA leave. another thing you could try is to bring a doctor's note to work

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morenita1989

KierraМама дочки-младенца, беременна (17 нед.)

Your not at all! I quit a job my first pregnancy because my boss was a douche and made me climb, lift, and pull heavy things all the time all while she say on her fat ass and ate pizza and wings every freaking day 😒 the last straw was when we had a mini tornado/storm and all the power went out and there was no air and I was already feeling faint that day and they told me I couldn't leave..so no your not wrong for how you feel don't put your pregnancy in danger for people who could care less

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?