so my biological father was mad when we decided to name the baby after my step dad the man i consider my dad for being there for the last 18yrs of my life consistently treating me as his own.
when we decided to name the baby after my dad he quit talking to me. now he tells me he was on crystal meth etc and that he's gotten clean like im gonna change baby name over 1 little thing. nope. well he goes posting on fb about "the devil made me do it blah blah" find out by his own admission he "fell off the clean wagon AGAIN" I HONESTLY DONT CARE ANYMORE. the guy has never been there for me. its now September he hasnt seen my first son since christmas last year. hasnt even tried. but wants to reshare all my posts about my son and talk about he loves his grandson.
well fucker if you "loved" your grandson ylu would know his name is Zachariah not Zachary and you would know his birthday and middle name. my son doesnt like him, he thinks i teach him things about him but no when you make an effort to be in a child's life they know you he has 2 grandpas and 2 grandmas that love him more than life itself. if he would've been there from the start maybe just maybe your grandson would know you. am i right? hes a deadbeat and is more worried about his gf kids than his own. granted yes im grown and my half sister is as well but damn dont blame me for my child not liking you.
sorry needed to rant.
he tries to act like he's perfect but when we found out we were pregnant with my first we told family and he was out of state working and I called him and he said "you couldve text me that I gtg" with this baby i just let him find out in a text message like 1/2 the family did. he found out gender on fb but he keeps making new fb accts. and adding me and saying he forgets his passwords but i think it's the drugs. I'm so done trying with him. he left town 2 days before my son was born and was blaming me for it.