When did my child become everyone else's? Last I checked it takes two to make a baby! My mother in-law just walked in the room and asked me and my fiance if we new for sure if im being induce on Thursday I said no we will hopefully find out more on Thursday and I could possibly be induced the same day but we dont know. So she said that she can take a leave of absence at work if I do just in case my fiance gets in to the police force. Um one we need the money two my mother is coming down for a week why would I need her here to? And on top of it I want to take care of my baby by my self with my fiance no one else she even wants to change her times she work at her work so she can be home to help with the baby.. I dont want that I want to do it I dont want help she is my baby not hers. I in away wish I could keep her in me so I dont have to share with others but her daddy...
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@jessicasnelson, your not alone there. And I wish people would respect their boundaries to!
if she can't even be an adult about you simply asking something mother to mother for her to respect your boundaries then you should just tell her you don't want people like that around your child.
That's what my hubby says too.. But it still gives me bad anxiety. Just wish people would respect their boundaries! @been ommy23lovebug23
@jessicasnelson, he is on my side he says that if she trys anything when the baby comes he is going to stop her
I feel you girl! I know how it is 😞 its so so hard! @new mommy23lovebug23
@jessicasnelson, I cant really put my foot down the last time I tried to with this it started a big ass fight between me and her my anxiety gets really bad everytime I even think about trying to talk to her about it again
@me wmommy23lovebug23, mine was the same way but if you can get your SO to back you up on this it's a lot of help and have him put her in her place.
@lucyyxoxo_, every time I try to talk to her about it and tell her she gets upset or pissed at me its hard to talk to her..
My mother in law did the same thing! She was like, "I'm taking a week off work to help you out" and I laughed. She didn't end up taking it off.
Same situation at my house! My MIL is way to over barring! And gotta put your foot down and tell her to back off and boundaries should not be crossed! It gives me anxiety even thinking about it!
politely just say no. I know it's frustrating but it's nice that you have a support system bc times do get overwhelming. just tell her she doesn't have to change her schedule around. whwn she has free time to just let you know ahead of time.. meaning don't barge into my room again lol
I dont want to leave my baby in daycare I want my baby with me she is so small I want to take care of her!!!!
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
I hate my generation sometimes ?
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I have the same problem once I had the baby mother in law always there like I tell her don't pick her up am about to feed her n what she do picks her up am jus so annoyed or at night time she runs to the room am like the baby OK she jus hungry I hate she always want to get the baby