I don't know if its even a thing but i think i may suffer from some sort of postpartum paranoia that something bad will happen to my baby. Im scared everyday. It doesn't interfere with with my general happiness though, I'm so in love with my son and might be borderline obsessed with him lol. I just cant shake that fear for some reason. Its more than just checking that he's breathing while he's sleeping. Scenarios play out in my head constantly where something bad happens to him. Even as im typing this im terrified that im jinxing him by saying it. Could it be anxiety? Idk. I just don't like this. Never went through this with my first. Any input/opinions are appreciated.
It's crazy I feel like this too ! I felt terrible for like it playing in my mind but I honestly can't help it ! It definitely causes a bit of anxiety, I always check on her breathing, more so when she was smaller but the whole thinking about something bad happens just sucks I thought I was the only one 😔
I was the same last year. I would think of odd things. But it gets better. It is normal to feel this way because you have a little human to keep safe and raise! That's scary and overwhelming sometimes. But eventually your nerves will calm and you will get the hang of it. :)
it's normal to feel this way, and hormones.
I would highly recommend getting one of the baby monitors that detects movement. I have one and it's the biggest ease of mind. it also alerts me if the temp in the room is too high or too low (upstairs room). and it's loud. it's not quite at all
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Lawyer can't do anything as of now with my ex and I have to stick with the order. Wonderful 🙄 so something even worse can happen to my precious baby boy?! I just have a bad feeling 😒😥😥
Trigger. I need prayers
My cousin just got a call that my uncle has been kidnapped and they are asking for 250,000. My uncles cousin was there and saw them take him. This happened in Mexico. Authorities are useless.
Omg I need to vent something weird just happened.... I'm scared because I thought it would never happen. I was in a deep sleep dreaming about ice cream and then all of a sudden I'm feeling wet spots on my neck thinking my fiancé's cat was in the room so I brushed it off. What scared me was then I felt something between my legs not bothered by it. Then all of a sudden I wake up to a twinge in my vagina only to see my fiancé is fucking me in my sleep I wake and was like scared. So I don't say noth...
It's called Post Partum Anxiety. it's very common. I struggled with it for a long time. it is so hard. I dddint even know PPA was a thing because it is so rarely talked about. Find someone to talk about it to, because the anxiety will seep into more than just being afaid for the baby. I had a tightness in my chest that made me bitter and scared all the time for everything. I ended up giving it all to Jesus and I have felt so much better ever since.