@clairey, sorry babes I've only just got this. it's hard adjusting to life with a baby especially whilst your still recovering. unfortunately men don't understand what we are going through it is so stressful. my baba is 5 weeks old and my partner still doesn't understand I spend most days so upset but there isn't much I can do he goes back to work tomorrow thankfully! are you feeling better? are you feel like your recovering my darling xxxx

Yeah will be just having one of those days when I feel like he doesn't understand what I'm feeling or thinking.. gave birth 2 weeks ago and it wasn't the best and I'm obviously still not feeling myself (had an episiotomy) then just adjusting to a newborn and then his ex is in touch - he does have a kid with her but she's never let him see her because of her boyfriend at the time and now she isn't with him she's trying to build a friendship with him and not just for the child so just feeling a bit down but apparently I'm just too hormonal and I'm more mature than that to let it get to me 😐 men! hope your ok too lovely xx

I second this 😭 hope your ok babes xxx