my son is only 3 weeks old and my SO is upset with me because I won't allow him to take him without me. Isn't it too early for him to be without me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Tomorrow is the first day alone without my mom to help out and babys been screamy around everyone not just me the past two days :/ dreading it. What to do with a grumpy baby for 8+ hours alone?! :/ I went for a four hour walk with him last week just to keep him sorta happy that killed my legs though
Jennifer·
Мама дочки-младенца
My little one will be 6 weeks Tuesday and has not went anywhere without me, and my milk never came in so I'm not breastfeeding. I'm just personally not ready for her to be somewhere without me, it's more for me not really for her
Bianca·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I wouldn't want my so to take our kids that early either
Kate·
Мама дочки-младенца
^^^^what housfullofgirls said. we left baby with Gma this weekend and last to go on a date
Stephanie·
yes, I think it's too early for the baby to be without you! Expecially of you are bf.......I left mine at 2 months and I feel it was too early. No one knows your baby like mama......but eventually you will need a break & take some mommy time @khaliawhite165
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Not unless he doesn't take a bottle
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
No.
Stacy·
В ожидании первенца
I don't think so