so my bfs son stays here two weekends a month. and of course the kids wake up early. and want breakfast and juice and…

nope that was how it was with my ex and it actually made me resent both of them

Yea I mean I get over it. but it starts my day off bad. n then my bf wants to be like "what's ur attitude" 😡

@talean89

No u aint the only one mine just left for a run and left his crying and screaming like someone is killing her while me and our newborn were still sleeping...shit is annoying he could had fed her and our oldest one before he left smh

Im the only one who gets up in the middle of the night to feed and change our newborn so i like to be able to sleep in but then this happens.. Sorry vent is over

@nakeily1112,

I don't think men could handle all the shit we do

@jenny73, i must agree with u on that...

idk because if I'm with someone it doesn't matter if it's just his kid or not because technically if i agreed to be with him i also agreed to take his kids in my life now if he didn't help at all that's different but either way i will treat his kids like my own because i agreed to be with someone with already has kids .

@carlitojrmami, I understand that to an extent but I work 30 hrs a week and I have my son full time. he gets his son 2 times a month and he can't get up to make his kid breakfast? nah I don't like that

@jenny73, oh yea then he needs to be getting his butt up

I feel ur pain their yes I knew when we got together that he had 2 kids but I didn't think I was gonna have to b the only one to ever get up with her every day. Yes he works 3rd shift but by golly when he's awake he needs to help me out with all these kids some. His youngest is 4 and the whiniest child I've ever met in my life. U tell her to go play she cries u tell her no she cries u don't do something fast enough for her she cries u tell her it's time for dinner she cries. I swear his ex must give her exactly what she wants all the time cause I ain't never met a kid that cries as much as she does. I seriously need a break sometimes and he just doesn't get it

@lost041,

yes I feel the same ! his ex has 4 other kids all girls. so his son is sooooo whiny and a huge tattle tale. I've already told my bf I will not keep his son by myself. because I don't have the patience

@jenny73, I unfortunately don't have the patience for all that either. My youngest is 9 and ya he can b whiny when he's sick but what kid isn't. Heck what adult isn't at some point. Us having a baby is gonna b a huge challenge cause I don't do well with whining and crying and I won't deal with it out of my own kids much less someone else's

@lost041, I'm gonna message u